I am bisexual, and am currently casually dating a girl. THe other day she mentions that she does not have sex at this point in her life, which is fine with me. But... now that she's out of town and i can't reach her, it has occured to me... what, exactly, is sex? s fingering sex? is oral sex? hmm...? I will ask her upon her return, but i'm wonderign what you opinion is.
2007-09-19 20:01:46 · 9 answers · asked by risks_(with a pessimist) 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
All of those things you mentioned is sex and some. It's what you two enjoy with each other on an intimate level.
2007-09-20 04:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Pnthr wmn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a casual dating thing then what difference does it make if she isn't wanting sex at this point? Find someone that is willing to have sex & let that be that. Keep this other person as a friend & go out with her just as friends. Because with out sex it isn't much more than that if it was just casual with her any way.
2007-09-23 23:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by imkrsts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say about sex is that you know when you're not having it and you know when you are. I mean, really, when was the last time you were getting down when you wondered if it was sex? I think that any situation where the desired result is orgasm, is sex.
2007-09-20 03:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Legs 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok my opinion no fingering is not sex,,,,thats just gettin ur fingers wet,,,oral is sex yes!! but for some people who are practicing abstinence or are celibate,,,,they may think fingerin is sex,,,yea i kno complicated women right?? lol
2007-09-26 18:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by B.S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is when someones sexual organs are touching another person's sexual organs. In lesbian's case, this includes dildos. Fingering does not count.
2007-09-26 16:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no anything what ends in an oh my gosh! is sex. plain and simple
2007-09-26 16:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why seek women's take on this question? It's obivious you face some jealousy towards your partner. Insecure people don't enjoy lasting relationships borne out of their misery.
Confront your jealousy first: either you overcome it or it overcomes you.
THEN you can proceed to ponder on sex variations.
2007-09-20 05:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by Hard Rocker 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
I don't know. Why don't you ask Bill Clinton?
2007-09-27 15:10:54 · answer #8 · answered by randy_plrm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it feels good and u woulnt do it with ur mother----its sex
2007-09-25 11:06:40 · answer #9 · answered by bsemaj 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋