As she was ready to marry with me,suddenly regret.WHY???
2007-09-19 19:10:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From the way you spell, I'm guessing it's because you aren't that smart.
2007-09-19 19:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She may try to get back together with you in the future, but only because she needs something from you (security, a shoulder to cry on, a place to stay). Don't let her use you this way. No matter how much you love her, she will never have any respect for you until you demand better for yourself. You deserve a partner that will take your feelings into account. It sounds like she has some growing up to do and some things to learn about love. The best way to teach her is NOT to let her walk in and out of your life at will. You can give her your love without letting her walk all over you.
2007-09-20 02:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the circumstances she would contact you under and ponder how realistic each is. Keep in mind that contacting you and beginning a relationship again are to very different things. People don't just cheat, there is always a reason for it. Sometimes it's personal weakness. If that's the case there would be no hope of the relationship you want with that person. There is always temptation, always. Just hope she isn't ruthless and manipulative, cuz she'd contact you again, play nice and then......my what a lovely piece of cutlery in my back....
2007-09-20 02:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by lazyslacker013 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her make a fool of you. She cheated once. If you let her get by with it, she will do it again. Just be glad that you did not marry her and have children that would get hurt in a split up. By showing her true colors now, she saved you from a life of misery. Do not put yourself in a position of letting her hurt you again. Move on, and find a girl that will be faithful to you.
2007-09-20 02:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sad Ican some people cheat. It is ok that you still love her, but you need to start letting go of your feelings for her. You need to start dating again and maybe find someone who appreciates you for who you are. If she has not called you after a long time, try to call her and just talk as friends and don't ask jealous questions, stay calm and cool. You will be ok Ican and you heart will heal. Bless you and your heart.
2007-09-20 02:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Talent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure of your question.
Your finacee cheated on you and then broke up with you?
If that is the case, it sounds like she found another, sorry, but you are better off without her.
She knows that you love her so much, to forgive her cheating which gives her the green light to do it over and over again, can you hang with that??
If you say yes, then I would have to say you do not respect yourself very much.
good luck, you deserve better
2007-09-20 02:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had no intention of marrying you. She intended to do what she did..It basically amounts to "having a steady job while moonlighting". You were the "steady job". She quit the day job, that's all. Hang on, I hear a phone...she's calling you now. She needs money. Please be generous.
2007-09-20 02:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Tonya R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are lucky becauset here would be divorce i am sure you need to get away from this situation and find someone else goo dluck
2007-09-23 21:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are what women describe as a gluten for punishment after they do you wrong and leave.
you want some more.
2007-09-20 02:19:07 · answer #9 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she don't want to be a "feature".
2007-09-20 02:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋