ok im 18 and engaed very happy with the guy im with.. problem is... im pregnant.. no biggie everyone is happy.. but my brother is in highschool and everyday he goes this girl sees him and starts going omg see that boy jake? his sister is a slut she is pregnant and not married... and it really bothers him. i can ignore her but she is telling everyone this and is bothering him in class.. i mean he is in highschool.. is there anything i can do? should i call the school? or what. i mean i know i cant call the cops or anything cas i dont think they would do anything. any help???
2007-09-19 18:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by **Wishing For A 2010 Baby** 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im engaged and we planed the wedding for nov 5th 2007 and were still gettin married then.. i found out i was pregnant 2 weeks after he asked me to marry him
2007-09-19 18:48:49 · update #1
I would have your mom call your brother's school and report this girl for harassment.
Also, if it continues or gets worst after this phone call your mom can set an appointment with the school board/superintendent and explain what is going on. If they fail to help or brush her aside, she has the right to legal help. It may be bad to use this a a threat, but my father was an attorney for the Clark County School District in Las Vegas, NV. and once said the best way for a parent to get help sometimes is through a lawyer.
2007-09-19 18:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
there is really nothing you can do. your brother just needs to be the adult and not let hateful words hurt him. im sure not everyone this girl is telling this too believes that about you. and im sure they all dont pick on him. its some girl who doesnt like him and she's getting her little click together to give him a hard time. the sad truth is, is he's letting them. he needs to just ignore them or not show that it bothers him. if he does this then they will stop!
2007-09-19 18:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by bn123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what....It doesn't matter why your getting married. your brother is old enough to take care of himself...and he should fix the problem by approaching the problem itself. He's a guy and he shouldn't ignore his problem by letting other people fight the battle for him....confront her and tell her to stop or else.....and that's that.
2007-09-19 19:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by Auntie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss the problem with the school counselor. Ask her/him to speak with the girl about harrassing your brother for something that has nothing to do with him.
2007-09-19 18:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to fight ignorance is with ignorance. Just ignore her. Tell your brother to do the same. Just thank him for caring about you and let him know that sometimes you can't stop others from thinking dumb.
2007-09-19 18:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by Luna Y Sol 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he needs to ignore her, we're not living 30 years ago ... people do have babies than get married ... sounds as if she's got issues, your brother doesn't need to add fuel to that fire and neither do you ... just pity her and her sad little life if she has nothing better to do but talk about people she doesn't know.
2007-09-19 18:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell the school that this girl is harassing your brother...im sure that the school counselor will talk to her about it
2007-09-19 18:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by made it to the top 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how easily a roll in the hay costs everyone in your life ,especially your family
you cant do anything but drop the child or get married fast
2007-09-19 18:38:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
im sorry to say it but get an abortion your destroying your life do you know how much a kid costs? its the most expensive commitment ever
2007-09-19 19:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm gonna assume you're only getting married because you're pregnant, so in that case, i'd agree with that chick.
2007-09-19 18:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋