i have been diagnosed depression, don't get along with my parents, i hate being at home, have at least one argument with my parents everyday (we have major personality clashes)
Thing is i still want a relationship with my parents, i think thats important, but it's killing me to live here with them!
HELP! PLEASE!!
2007-09-19 18:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by lkjhyuio 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Move out and visit them often.
2007-09-19 18:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you sound like me. Me and my mom both have diagnosed depression, along with aniexty, and my mother is also bi-polar. She's married to a jackass I cannot stand who abuses her, my siblings are unruly, we have absolutely NO money, and we get into fist fights over the matters, and fight at least once or twice a day. You have no idea how badly I want to move out.
Think about where you are going...are you moving in with a friend, getting your own place...what? You need to think of finances, as well as responsibilites. It's a big step.
And most importantly, are you old enough? I've been trying since I was 15. I'm turning 18 in November, and leaving in January to stay with a friend that is going to help me out, till I can get on my own two feet.
Whatever you decide, just be careful and don't ever let the worry of upsetting people stop you. They are your parents. They are going to love you no matter what you do, all differences set aside. It's your life. Live it for yourself and do what makes you happy.
Good luck.
2007-09-19 18:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by A bit young 4 being psychotic 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your home is far away from home, then you must move in the uni. You have to waste much time on travelling everyday when going to the university. Besides, this is another social world which you can't find at home. You can also meet many friends there. You can also learn a lot besides learn how to be independent. Just think about it. If you don't try, how do you know it isn't fun or interesting to live in university dorm!
2016-05-19 00:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely move out. Some parents can be very overbearing and not give you space.
My only caution is that you make sure you are getting treatment for your depression (ie. counselling and/or medication) and that you leave your parents' home on a good note - dont' leave after a fight. Make sure you have thought it out, whether you can afford to move, etc. There is no reason you can't have a good relationship with your parents if you move out, and in fact, it may improve.
My mother drives me nuts as she's very domineering and volatile. I was so much happier when I left home! She then drove my much younger brother out of home 2 years ago and he's much happier now! Sometimes, you need to get out for your own sanity.
Good luck with your decision !
2007-09-19 18:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just move out of home. Move someplace you like to be.
If you spend at least half a year on your own away from Mom & Dad, your relationship will grow eventhough you will be living far from them. They should miss you so much after a while with you living far from home.
I moved out last October and lived in the Tampa Bay area, 950 miles from DC. I lived there for 5 months and my family missed me. I was away from them during two major family holidays(Thanksgiving & Christmas).
I moved back in in March and our relationship was better. Especially with my brother.
2007-09-20 01:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by I hate Hillary Clinton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get happy,
If you are over 18 and are financially secure---move out and get a life that makes you happy.
If you have little or no $$$$ , are not able to support your self with ease---thank your parents in every way for their support and show it with love and being of worth to them.
Life is an attitude and common sense. Start with gratitude, joy, interest in others above your own self centered world.
Grow up, life can be a bummer but it's the only life you have so make the best of it and work at improving your life in all ways. Love putting others be for your self---it makes for better marriages, kids, friends, family and life.
2007-09-19 18:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you have the funds to move out and get a place to stay i would do it. If you don't i would say that maybe you and your parents can try and work out what's not working between you all. I know its not much but i hope it helps out a little bit.
2007-09-19 18:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by storeetjdjay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how much money you make, and how many friends you have.
i didnt get a long with my parents, so i moved out, and my life went downhill. i didnt make enough to support myself, and was always sad and alone at home, unless my friends were over, and they didnt come over all the time. so i got so lonely and depressed and broke. so i moved home to save money, and my relationship has since improved with my parents and friends.
I WOULD STAY AT HOME
2007-09-19 18:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way for you to afford to leave is if you have one or more roommates, unless you earn a lot of money. You have to be very careful who you get as a roommie.
2007-09-19 18:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move out and feel better about yourself. You can always call them.
2007-09-19 18:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋