I am a WOMAN!
Gay guys are always telling me how pretty I am, even if they have just met me. I am overweight still with a great personality.
Stright guys don't seem to like me as much or ask me out.
I was told that gay guys are more picky. Then why does this occur to me?
2007-09-19 18:12:09 · 15 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You have to love and like yourself for you to get that in return, from most straight men. Gay men can find you beautiful, absolutely adorable, but only as a friend. Self confidence can make you or break you no matter what size you are, if you don't think highly of yourself, why would you expect someone else to...
2007-09-19 18:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by ©Diva© 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be one of those gay guys. I think the way I used to look at it is I wanted to be the good guy. You know.. Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you. Gay guys like me can get pretty lonely sometimes being less than 5% of the male population. But eventually, I fell in love with one of those girls I was trying to be nice to. That's when I could stop trying so hard, because I believed in how beautiful she was. Our relationship is one of deep love, but there's still that issue of my gay past that gets in the way. I guess being gay and hitting on a woman kind of led to me discovering that I'm actually "bi". Yeah, that sounds about right.
The point it, if some guy is telling you that you're pretty, he's probably just telling you the truth. Ultimately, that's what it comes down to anyway- the truth.
2007-09-19 18:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by tigergeek16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gay guys are sweeter more sensitive than straight guys so he may have just been being nice. But also, gay guys can be brutally honest so they will tell it like it is. If a girl looks like a train wreck, they will tell it. So it's probably that he was being honest and you actually have a really pretty face. Straight guys are usually too intimidated to talk to really pretty girls. But to be honest most guys prefer women that stay in shape and take care of their bodies. So that may be another reason they don't hit on you. But with that said, don't get it twisted b/c there are a lot of guys who happen to like women with more "cushion for the pushin", however they are a minority. I bet you have a beautiful personality and for people that have a mature state of mind, that is all that matters. But unfortunately, there is still a gang of superficial people out there. I noticed your name "soon to be slim" or something like that. I wish you luck on that and hope you meet your goals. I think it is good for people to want to loose weight--NOT so that they can get attention from the opposite sex and NOT to look like fake women on tv and in magazines but just to be fit and healthy.
2007-09-19 18:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think of perhaps fairly some the older men got here from a time whilst all gay men have been interior the closet, and subsequently there grow to be much less of an obvious massive distinction between who's gay and who's promptly.
2016-10-19 04:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere between 'Tom Boy' and 'Deva' there is a style of Woman that has all the best qualities of both genders. She is the Female that attracts the attention of Gay Men who are perceptive enough to tune into this person's inner qualities. You may well be one of Natures truely beautiful people, and not even know it!
2007-09-19 18:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to judge you because for me this is why I have the problem of people not approaching me.It may be your body language. They may read it as not being approachable . You may ask some of your friends to be honest & see what they feel about it. Being over weight doesn't matter at all you can still find a great person for you. Just be aware of your body language with people you might be attracted to. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-23 15:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just sounds like gay guys are more in tune with how girls think and feel. Straight guys don't really realize that just because you're on the curvy side doesn't mean that you're not drop-dead gorgeous!
2007-09-19 18:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by VoDkA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay guys aren't trying to sleep with you so there's no pressure and it's easier to talk to you. Plus, don't mean to be stereotypical but this is a positive thing but gay dudes just seem to be more friendly and outgoing. Gay guys seem to be very image concioius and very stylish so take it as a compliment.
2007-09-19 18:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Gay guys are more sensitive with their feelings and their open about things...a few of my best friends are gay guys...they see nothing wrong with telling their feelings...you are a very pretty girl....its just gay guys know how to talk to females better...their lingo is our lingo.
2007-09-23 05:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by Dani021 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gay men, to me, are women souls trapped in a man's body. These souls posses all the feminine characteristics. They know how it is to feel unattractive because of physical flaws. They just want to boost your esteem. Take it for what it is: someone giving you a compliment. Quit driving yourself crazy with comparing apples to oranges. **hugs**
2007-09-19 18:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by Y!A P0int5 Wh0r3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋