I've decided I want to date guys and am not sure how to start... hope that there r those more experienced in this that could help me... thanks
2007-09-19 17:03:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be yourself. If you are new at this, say so, its OK.
And PLEASE do yourself a favor and fall in love before having sex. Sex is just for fun, but Love is vitally important.
2007-09-19 17:10:16 · answer #1 · answered by sudonym x 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think you should wear something that flatters your figure, but not too much or too casual. Dress for the occasion/setting. I think you should feel comfortable with how you look, then you can feel comfortable with him. Tell yourself you're comfy with the situation, even if you're not, when you appear confident, guys find it very attractive. Everyone is worried about their first kiss, but what will be will be. There is no proper way to prepare, everyone who has ever kissed someone has had to go through a 'first kiss'. Even if he does kiss you and it doesn't go too well, hopefully the date will have gone well enough for him to overlook that, giving more time to perfect the art of kissing! Have fun on you're date! Don't be startled if he tries to hold your hand or something, be cool and casual. This will show him you are having fun and the pair of you can relax! Hope all goes well! xxx
2016-05-19 00:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You really think that You are ready to take the big plunge, then feel free to go for it. Don't allow Yourself to be taken advantage of by others who have more experience or a political agenda uniquely Their own.
Try contacting Your local 'Gay Pride' organization for a list of safe venues and meeting places.
Look up, or better still join, SFGLBT Pride and ask "Brendan" for any information He can supply.
Good luck. Ashleigh.
2007-09-19 18:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do things you enjoy doing, maybe dinner or a game of some sort first.
During conversation, ask questions about him. People love to talk about themselves to anyone who'll listen. If he doesn't think you're a catch, move on to the next one, but don't fall in love, if you can help it. Falling in love is not what you intended to do until after your first sex.
Sex shouldn't happen before the third date, at the earliest. I wish I'd heeded this advice on my own when I was nineteen.
good luck.
2007-09-19 18:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by for Da Ben Dan--Dennyhill 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dylan, you'll get a "tip" when you start dating a guy baby!
Seriously: there's not step 1,2,3, to dating guys. Just look amazing, be yourself, and always stay clean. Everything else you will pick up as you go along.
2007-09-24 09:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by BlazInAZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with Sudonym and Gecko's answers. They said it perfectly. If you're worried about the mechanics and performance - don't worry. That will be as easy as walking before you know it.
2007-09-20 03:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Clint 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself I think so.. sure I am like you.. I have dated a guy ... I hope so some day
2007-09-19 17:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
why do you want to date guys? can't you find a girl? don't be so desperate
2007-09-25 20:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk like u would to A girl
2007-09-26 11:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do easy, fun things.bowling, movie, dinner. what kind of things do you like to do? just be yourself, and don't worry about it being "perfect".. and i agree, don't rush into sex.. wait to see if there is something more then just lust.. :) enjoy
2007-09-19 18:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by Gecko Missed all his friends 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋