Mature Female Adults Only! How many know by now what they really want out of life in general and out of a man?

Question

How many Mature Female Adults --know by now what they really want out of LIFE in general AND what they really want out of a MAN in general???

Thanks guys! For ya'll honest answers! I just hope that everyone of ya'll have at least found their Extremely Happiness in life in general. Even, I guess without a man. I hope all of ya'll can find some type of PEACE and HAPPINESS in ya'll's Life somehow and somewhere. Once you have FOUND your Super Extreme Happiness,---Stay there and don't ever let go. Thanks guys!

Answer 1

I most definiltey know what I want out of life and "in" a man ... (I outgrew wanting to get something out of a man a long time ago) .... I think for both, the answers would be generally the same. I want happiness, fulfillment, satisfaction, contentment and a future. A man cannot give me this, only I can, but having the right man to share my life with makes it all worth while!

Answer 2

I have found what I want sooo many times----and then what I want changes. I love learning new things and being open to new experiences. I am 42 years old and just changed careers into a field that I have no experience and have to take a pay cut, but it sounded like fun and something that I will be good at. How would I ever know if I don't try. As far as what I want in a man? That stays pretty consistent. I found everything I want in a man, but he's 18 years younger then me and that will eventually make our relationship hard if not impossible. I feel so blessed that we found each other, we are nearly perfect in every way for each other---except that.

Answer 3

Females are actually more confused han male at that age. We have more going on in our bodies. Not just physically. We start producing new hormones that can cause a whole lot of stress and confusion. They are not adults at that age and should not be treated as though they are. Physical and mental maturity are completely different things. I think what you are noticing is that men at that age have high levels of testosterone which cause competitiveness and a need to be "the alfa male" which causes a lot of what in civilized times we call immature behavior. Women at this age are becoming reproductive our bodies are getting ready for everything they will need to carry, birth , and feed a child. We are still going through the " everyone is watching me" phase and a very drown out emotional stage where you try to figure out who you are and where you fit in to the world. Yes GIRLS that age are more motivated to get there work done. yes they are more relaxed than boys. and Yes they are more physically developed. But you mistake is in thinking that behavior and maturity are one in the same. They are not.

Answer 4

I am a mature female, divorced,and I know what and who I want. I want a mature man with love for life, has confidence in himself, and he needs to be my soulmate. Maybe that is a tall order. Life is too short for fussing and fighting. This world needs LOVE and plenty of it. Life is not Hollywood. Love is looking towards the same goals whether you are 20 and together or 55+ and together. That is what I want out of a man in general. To thine own self be true.

Answer 5

I knew what I wanted out of life even before I married, and I must say that I have done almost everything that I wished to do. What I want out of a man is for him to be my friend, my companion, my confidante and to join me in this journey of life. So far, it has been mostly terrific and we have held together when many couples may have fallen apart; through the hard times - but have come out of it stronger and more loving and appreciative of each other.

Answer 6

Your wants and needs change as you get older. Things and people you couldn't imagine living w/o then are silly now. I wish I had the wisdom back then that I do now. Life would have been sooooo much easier. I would have to say that honesty,integrity,and empathy are the most important traits to find in a person. Man or woman.

Answer 7

I know what i want from a man and that is to be honest trustworthy loyal kind respectful thoughtful of others including me of course and a good and loving heart and to love me and only me until the day I die. If i had a man like that my life would be as i have always dreamed. That would be a good life for me and my man i would take good care of him.

Answer 8

well i cant speak for others but i want from a man (my husband)
1. a man who listens to me
2. don't tell me how to think or feel
3. has a special way to make me feel sexy/loved/and appreciated
4. to help with the bills
5. to help with the house work
6. not to treat one kid better than the other or name calling
7.one who make special time for us as a couple (go on a date -not to a Buddy's house)
8.someone who doesn't look at porn
9. has respect for my family even if they don't like or agree on stuff
10. not to be a momma boy where the sun rises and set on momma

Answer 9

I know that I want to make a difference in the world. I have achieved the ultimate happiness with my children. As far as men go, THE LIST goes on. I want a best friend, a soldier in my army, I want a man who is secure and confident in himself and doesn't mind that I'm a bit anal and independent. I want a shoulder to cry on and an ear to bend. Someone to belly laugh with. Most of all I want to want to be all these things to him.

Answer 10

mmmmm All i want honestly in a man is someone who thinks that im number 1, not work friends etc.
Someone who i can sit on the couch with and have burping competiton with cos we are that comfortable with eachother.
Someone who tells me every night before he goes to sleep that he loves me. (I have my ideal man now)
As far as my life, i am doin everything that i have wanted in my life, raising three beautiful children, casual job that doesnt take me away from my children (work nights), own everything in my house, own 2 cars! Only thing left to do is buy our own house.
I am one of the lucky ones, that have nearly everything i wanted, not without hard yards though.