Is my best friend a ****?

Question

my best friend hooks up with different guys just about everyweek. see the thing is she ends up liking the boys she hooks up with and then hooks up with there best friends to make the guys she likes jealous. when i mean hook up i mean she gives blow jo**bs ,gets fingered sometimes she even has sex with people she doesn't even know . it really bugs me because everyone is asking me if what she does is true and if i do the same things as she does ....thats not even the worst part she bi so people are asking me if we hook up ...i really don't know what to do .Any advice ?

i put this under friends but no one responded

Answer 1

I hope you've approached your friend about this - I'm not really concerned about her reputation right now, but I'm a little panicked about the possibility of her getting pregnant or worse, a disease. I don't know how long you've been friends with her but if it's been several years, you need to tell her she's not only making herself look cheap, she's probably making you look cheap, but WORST OF ALL, she's putting her body and her health in danger. Especially sleeping with people she doesn't know. In fact, if you're along with her and something happens to her because she's sleeping around with people she doesn't know, she's putting you in danger as well. This girl is trouble and she's going to end up in deeper trouble. After you talk to her, if she continues this behavior, you should remove yourself from the "friendship" - and don't be afraid to talk to an adult about it.

**Edit: Actually, I really don't care how long you've been friends with her, now that I think about it. ACT NOW.

Answer 2

your friend must be going/has gone though some really hard times, it'll prob get worst for her if she keeps up this sort of behaviour, like an unwanted pregnancy and the like. people will naturally think you're doing the same sort of things cause you are her best friend. you can either stay away or try and talk some sense into her, she might just need a good ear and some serious therapy, this could be her way of crying out for help.

Answer 3

Might be time to make new friends.
Tell your friend you really like her, but you are uncomfortable with some of her behavior. You could name incidents if pressed.
Tell her the behavior is not safe,and could threaten her life [ sex with strangers?!? ] She is at risk for several life threatening diseases as well.
Ask if she would tell her Grandmother or pastor those things
[ or whoever she respects ].

Answer 4

Well that's not right...the best thing you could do is make a new friend someone that you won't feel as to having such nasty rep. too just by being friends with someone like that- your two separate people & you have a mind of your own don't let her change you...don't follow along with her stupid mistakes...good luck with that one;)

Answer 5

If it bothers you so much, you should probably talk to her. That's all I can think of. For the people asking you thing, I don't know because people will think what they want to think no matter what you try to tell them. Best of Luck! :]

Answer 6

yea she slutty.you can warn about STDs and all that but do you think she will listen? and with you hangin out with her youll get the rep for being that way too.but a freind is a freind and you have to think about do you want this kind of freind.its all up to you

Answer 7

I think you should join a church, an understanding, open one, but one that still cares about god's laws and the health dangers she's exposed to.
You'll either both shape up, or grow apart.

Such is life.

Answer 8

i agree wit doug955...Shes really not a good friend.

Answer 9

yes she is. what's her phone number? j/k.