I read questions here asked by men about women that make good logical arguments and I see the women respond with lies, twisted logic and elusive answers.
It is common knowledge that women as a group (when compared to men) are more emotional and more irrational, are more attracted to Bad boys than nice guys, and are just as unfair (if not more so) in their treatment of men as men are in their treatment of women.
Doesn't it look bad when the women come on here and claim these things are not true? If it applies to 90% of women why would you argue for the 10% it doesn't apply to? Am I more likely to meet a woman from the 90% group or the 10% group?
Why is it so important for women to come across as 'perfect and flawless' in comparison to men?
2007-09-19 13:47:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I agree with you for the most part. I think it's mainly these two catagories:
1) They are feminists and don't want to end up feeling lesser than a man or sometimes other women.
2) A lot of women (including myself) have issues with self image. Therefore, we will do whatever it takes to be right. Also that's why the "bad boy", I think, is more attractive. He makes us feel special. The nice guy will like any Jane Doe but the bad boy will like only the special woman.
That's what I think in a nutshell.
2007-09-20 05:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I agree with you, women are by no means more fair towards men, than men are towards women. In fact, in the points you brought up, men and women are rather more similar than in different from each other:
There are a lot of women being attracted to males, which are not good for them, the same way, that many men have a knack in picking women who are bad for them, while the decent girls and boys are often overlooked.
Few people like to flaunt their shortcomings, neither men nor women do. For almost everybody I know (and that qualifies for both genders), admitting a flaw or a mistake requires an environment of acceptance - and emotional security, something which you generally don't expect on a board like this, which is open to everyone. If people perceive themselves to be in a more hostile or competitive environment, they are much more likely to
defend themselves and their flaws. Thus, a woman posting here is more likely to defend her gender than to admit to certain flaws conventionally attributed to their gender. (If there were something like a 'male issue' section, we'd see the same thing the other way around.)
Now to the logical arguments. To my experience, many people tend to appreciate the arguments that happen to support their opinions and reject those as lies, which contradict their opinions. You can find that attitude on almost every message board or blog you can find on the Internet. And so far, I haven't seen much gender differences in that behavior either, nor in the quality of the arguments.
2007-09-19 21:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by LGM 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Everyone has flaws, shortcomings, faults, weaknesses, but not everyone has the SAME flaws, shortcomings, faults and weaknesses. The problem is, you generalize too much and that offends everyone...you like to categorize all women into one group and that's not accurate or fair. Why not take a look at people as individuals? We're not all carbon copies of each other, you know.
2007-09-19 21:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Why do you care? If you think we're all twisted elusive liars then don't bother with us. I freely admit that I hold a grudge like nobodies business and that occassionly I make smart *** remarks just to liven it up. I am a drama queen who requires complete and total devotion to me and all my glory. I am also a rabid die hard football fan .Thurs,JV. Fri. Varsity. Sat. College, Sunday and Monday NFL. We are all bad in some way. You, me, her, him, that dude over there. Roll with it big bobaluga.
2007-09-20 03:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
No, men are just as emotional and irrational as women. It's just that they tend to show different kinds of emotions than women. What do you think aggressiveness, anger, recklessness, and sexual jealousy are? That's right, they're emotions and examples of irrational behavior.
2007-09-20 01:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by RoVale 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It is your opinion that women "" respond with lies, twisted logic and elusive answers"'. It is not common knowledge about anything you purport to be the truth.
2007-09-19 21:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by professorc 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Baba Yaga... Looks like you just proved his point by posting an elusive answer. Its funny how people argue and defend themselves, then turn around and do the same thing they claim they don't do.. muahahaha
2007-09-19 21:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Brad D 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
wow. you need to come out into the real world. Your mind must be getting very claustrophobic. Come out and see what's actually going on in the world not what you wish was going on.
2007-09-20 01:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by uz 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Women have flaws. Men have "short"comings - and most of 'em are shorter than they realize.
2007-09-19 21:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 3⤋
You're so hairy, wiping your a r s e must be like trying to get peanut butter out of shag carpeting. And that's all I have to say about that. Love you :)
2007-09-19 23:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by Ness B 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋