we`ve been friends for a while, and hes always stuck by me through everything all the boy problems and he has always just been there and i now he has always liked me and we went on vacation with eachother this year and we held hands, but nothin happened after and this past weekend we were @ our friends house and i fell asleep and he carried me downstairs i woke and he was rubbing my back, and we just laid there and cuddled, and its like i realized that i loved this kid all along, but now since im texting him and giving him more attention i think hes scared, hes never had his first kiss before and ive had more experience and i dont want him 2 think i expect that from him at all. i dont no what to say to him to make him understand how i feel about him
2007-09-19 11:41:46 · 20 answers · asked by Samantha D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its always good to be close friends with some1 b4 you date them or have a serious relationship with them. You end up knowing what they are all about, and you kno that you can be friends as well as lovers too. i can tell you right now that from wat u said, he likes you too. just as much as u like him if not more. its definately ok for him to be scared, its all a part of falling in love. It sounds like your gonna have to be the one to bring up "the subject" so to speak. it might be hard 4 you but understand that u will be happy with the outcome, and glad that its finally in the open. good luck to ya!
2007-09-19 11:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by ReD SoX #1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have "the talk". It is obvious that you both like each other. But, neither of you knows what the other is thinking. You need to ask yourself some questions to find out what you think is best FOR YOU. Do you even want to take it to the next level? If so, let him know, if not then do not lead him on anymore. Would you rather just be friends or risk getting more serious and having something happen in the future that could deteriorate your relationship?
2007-09-19 11:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Scott R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it. maybe you should just kiss him the next time he does something to make you happy or to make him deserve a hug throw your arms around him give him a hug and a great big kiss on the mouth. no tongue just a kiss on the mouth then pull away slowly not too fast to freak him out say oh sorry i just couldn't help myself. and go on about your normal life the next day tell him that you were thinking a lot about what happened and it felt good and you want to kiss him again and you have feelings for him and hope he feels the same way if he does great if he does not then thats okay too just be his friend and try to snuggle as much a possible. another idea next time you are snuggling just give him a kiss on the mouth and tell him good night or kiss him pull pack a few inches and look at him and then repeat kissing good luck!
2007-09-19 11:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it slowly. Don't just spill it out take ur time. And also when u do tell how u feel just explain to him ur not expecting him to know and do everything. There will be a perfect moment for u to tell him how u feel but until this time don't just give him all the attention let him give u some attention too.
2007-09-19 11:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make the first move. if having a relationship with you is something he is interested in he will let you know. it sounds like your are still young and so i wld also say that "friends" at this point in your life are more important than "boyfriends". Boyfriends will come and go. If this guy is someone you can be romantically involved with then it will happen when the time is right.
2007-09-19 11:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Roc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well especially since he is one of your best guy friends, im sure you guys have talked about things before. just because you are starting to catch feelings doesnt mean you guys cant communicate in the same ways. you know that he likes you, but does he kno that you like him? remember he's a guy lol. just talk to him and find out whats really goin on. dont just jump into it by saying 'I LOVED YOU ALL THIS TIME' it might creep him out lol just take it one day at a time
good luck with u nd ur bestie!
2007-09-19 11:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it could be the beginning to a great love story.... Just go with it. Why try to make it better than it already sounds?
2007-09-19 11:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by hnfs73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him. Sit down and talk to him, be honest, it is the only thing that is going to do you good. You need to tell him your feelings, so you guys can grow together, Tell him you don't expect anything, that whatever happens, Happens. Telling someone you care about, that you have fallen in love with them, is scary, but...If he cares about you, like you care about him..Its worth the "talk". Good Luck!
2007-09-19 11:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i for the first time on a dating question have nothing to say sry.
oh wait now i do.
Don't end a relationship just because he seems like he is scared if what you said is true than he just isn't sure what's the right next move.
2007-09-19 11:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had pretty much the same thing happen to me. We've been together for three years.
Don't push it. He probably feels vulnerable. Just be yourself (like you always were before, obviously that's what he likes), and let things progress naturally.
2007-09-19 11:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋