i am bisexual and i want to dress like i am different
2007-09-19 11:00:21 · 27 answers · asked by groovy_chocolate 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think you can necessarily tell.
I have one mate who is Gay but he plays rugby and works as a Labourer on a building site. If I didn't know I wouldn't be able to tell.
On the other hand I had a work colleague who everyone was convinced was gay because he was so effeminate and then he turned up at a party with his heavily pregnant wife.
If you want to make it known about your sexuality you don't have to shout it from the rooftops but be proud. Just tell those people you want to know.
2007-09-19 12:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by steve 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 03:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you are sooooooo wrong!!! You are associating male gays with those who act effeminate, even though these guys are only a small part of all. Gay men are in all professions, like and enjoy the same things that anyone else does. Most dress very masculine.
The biggest hero of the Iraq war was a Marine Staff Sgt who lost a leg in combat. Although no one suspected it, he was gay and finally decided to come out. So the Marine Corps, in all its' infinite wisdom, discharged him. I wish I could tell you his name. But, of course, that is just not appropriate.
2007-09-27 08:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by randy_plrm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell gay or bisexual people unless really camp! Just get a t-shirt that says I'm bisexual if you want everyone to know!
2007-09-19 11:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by ???? 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can't always tell with men either. I've known men who people have been convinced were gay and they weren't, and the other way round too-guys people thought were 'typical boys' in every way, turned out to be gay.
What makes it easier to tell is that it's accepted, even encouraged, in society for women to be a bit 'male', wear male clothes and behave like men.
2007-09-26 09:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Acai 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many so called Bi persons could be transgendered Like Being gay it's not a choice but a genetic born condition. You mat want to consult a therapist and discuss your issues.
2007-09-27 08:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Phyllis C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my advice is to dress how you want to dress. Nobody knows my sexual preferences until I tell them, because I have my own style and don't conform to any stereotype. Sexuality really has nothing to do with fashion, and vice versa, and to see clones all the time really is demoralising.
As for the attire, start with finding clothes you like and start wearing them. Don't go to the shops everyone else goes to. Go to vintage shops and charity shops.
2007-09-19 12:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am straight-but what does it matter really.
Dress how ever you want. Put your own twist on your clothes.
I like wearing old restaurant shirts and ironing band patches on them. You could do anything with GoodWill and a sewing machine.
my point is that what you dress like-while in certain conditions could construe as 'gay'; How you act toward others is what makes you homosexual, or straight or whatever. in theory, Right?
2007-09-27 05:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hit or miss on being able to tell or "catch a vibe" as some people like to say. If women want a person or friend to know, and they are comfortable enough with that person then they tell them. Signals are sent through body language also. If you want people or your friends to know, just tell them.
2007-09-19 11:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. I'm gay and I'm still wearing the same things I wore before I came out.
If you want people to know you're ... different ..... wear a pair of dungarees but I don't. I'm just me, being gay has always been a part of who I am but it's only a PART of who I am.
2007-09-20 11:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by elflaeda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋