i know i was stupid, i messed around with my boyfriend, and he started to rub up and down on me and he tried to push in some, i said no right away but i do no he got inside me some.
and i made him leave right away and now trust me im not to happy with him,.
but i no this might be stupid, but i no there is a slight chance i could be preg from this which will break my heart honestly. but im curious if i am or not, i dont have the money to go by a preg test yet. the day after he did that i got a light pain every once in a while, but then yesterday i got brown discharge and i still have it today. my period is not normal ever. do you think im pregnant, and btw im 19. sorry if this seems stupid.but i got no older female to ask, my mother passed away
2007-09-19 10:33:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
sounds like the pain was cramps and the discharge is your period, so your not pregnatn
2007-09-19 10:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by prplfae 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, only time will tell. Since your menstrual cycle is irregular, it's kind of hard to count the days and see what the chances are based on when you might have ovulated and when the "intrusion" happened. Did he ejaculate inside you? Rather than be unhappy with him, ask him to go to Rite Aid with you and buy a pregnancy test kit--I've never bought one, but I'm pretty sure they are under $20. You can also go to Planned Parenthood or at least call them. If you are pregnant, which I hope you're not, they will steer you toward an abortion. Your boyfriend is part of this, so tell him what's going on in your head and don't walk this path alone. I think if you are going to fool around you both need to buy some condoms and have them on hand and use them even if he is going to rub around on you.
2007-09-19 10:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you don't have your mother, but glad you are able to openly ask these questions.
1. Questions I have for you - did your boyfriend ejaculate while inside? If not,
then no worries about a pregnancy.
2. If yes, you could be pregnant, however, it would have to be perfect timing
with your ovulation and strong swimmers if he was barely inside (as you
state.
3. If you have never had full penetration during sexual intercourse you could
bleed slightly just from the slight penetration you experienced, and it could\
also cause discomfort.
4. If you feel you are pregnant - and don't have the money for a test, my
suggestion would be to go to a free clinic in your area. It is best to put
your mind at ease so you are not worrying.
5. I don't know where you live but I did a search on free pregnancy clinics and
got the following url. It's a place to start.
Best of Luck to you.
http://www.firstresort.net/ept.htm?gclid=CMaDn66-0I4CFSadIwodTiIM8A
This url is for a free pregnancy test if you live in the SF Bay area.
http://www.womenscommunityclinic.org/about_us/index.html?gclid=CKGapcm-0I4CFRYOIgodOkGO-A
The Womens Community Clinic - in SF - but perhaps they have other #'s they can connect you to
2007-09-19 10:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, he's a jerk..lose him.
I'm thinking that the pains and brown discharge are realated to ovulation. Many women, myself included, get pains on either side of the lower abdomen(depends on which ovary is ovulating) and brown/pink discharge. Was it stretchy? Almost like egg whites?? If so, I would be a tad worried that you could get pregnant. It's not a HUGE possibilitiy, but still a chance. You said your cycles are irregular, so in about 2 weeks go take a test. Usually it takes 6-12 days for the embryo to implant, and usually at least 2 weeks after conception for a test to show accurate results, sometims it takes longer.
2007-09-19 10:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by phxchik07 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible, but VERY doubtful. That cramping you are feeling is probably your period. If you are honestly worried, then go to planned parenthood. It's free. Ask for a pregnancy test. If this happened within the last 48 hours, then go to planned parenthood and ask for Plan B. That's free, too. You should be going to planned parenthood anyway. they can answer any questions you have and you can get birth control. IT'S FREE!!!!! That's where I go. It doesn't cost me any money. Even when I got HPV and had to get a colposcopy, biopsies and the LEEP procedure (normally costing $4,000) was free.
Go!
2007-09-19 10:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even pre-come (the clear fluid he prodduces when he's excited) contains sperm - up to 100,000 sperm in a single drop. It only takes one to make you pregnant.
A pregnancy test is best done the week after your period would have ended if it doesn't show up. You can get it done at any planned parenthood clinic. The dollar store also has cheap pregnancy tests which are just as effective as the more expensive ones.
2007-09-19 10:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is NO chance you could be preg. IF he did not ejaculate inside you! And by the way I would be very mad 2!! And talk to him about it! DID you tell HIm NO stop? IF so it is rape! Go tell a councler or the police! HE was so wrong for that Never let anyone take advantage of you like that I am so sorry that this happened to you, it will be alright. I am praying for you!!!
2007-09-19 10:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by wendi t 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all you did say no to him, and that's considered rape. I know he's your bf but without your consent that's totally illegal.
secondly there's always the possibility you're pregnant. but you need to be open and honest with him and ask him if he came at all inside you. if he didn't don't worry about it but if he did somehow work up the money for a test.
there are some out there that aren't too expensive.
good luck with everything.
2007-09-19 10:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by **em** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either see your doctor, buy the pregnancy test, or both.
Strange as it might sound, it actually is possible to get pregnant without actual penetration.
Good Luck.
Doc
2007-09-19 10:39:20 · answer #9 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeekkk...sucks! ummm if your period is not regulated then the brown stuff more than likely is your period.... its kind of ok because usually when something happens like that you have it in your head that your pregnant and you stress about it. but i think everything is fine! i highly doubt that your pregnant, but if u say you have money fot the pregnancy test, then just out and get one to be 100% sure or to give you piece of mind but imsure your not =) Hope i helped =)
2007-09-19 10:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by custom_made_mami 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can go to a crisis pregnancy center..they are in every town and they give free tests to everyone who needs one. the also offer counceling.
Good luck
2007-09-19 10:41:46 · answer #11 · answered by Perennial Queen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋