its a LONGGGG story..and i know it sounds weird but are there any suggestions?
2007-09-19 10:33:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I think we need to know the long story. Do you just want your hymen to break for some reason? Will your hymen not break even though you have tried having sex? What do you consider not being a virgin? To me, a virgin is someone who has not had penetration by a penis (or for a male, never penetrated anyone).... but others may disagree.
2007-09-19 10:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Loosing your virginity is sex, thats sort of the point. Why do you want to? If its a religious thing like not wanting sex before marriage but wanting to please a partner I can understand - but I'm afraid its a lost cause! You can 'fiddle' with each other (you know, masturbate each other, or perform oral sex), but it's just foreplay and it'll be so much harder to wait. I would recommend that you wait until you want to actually perform the deed - I find oral sex is so much more personal than the actual sex, and you don't want to do anything you aren't comfortable with.
2007-09-19 10:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to lose your virginity - and that is to have sex - that's what a virgin is - someone who has never had sex.
You are probably refering to breaking your hymen. Many activities can break your hymen. Masturbation involving penetration is the easiest way to do it deliberately - it can happen manny different ways by accident - falling of your bike, riding horses, doing gymnastics, even using tampons can do it.
If you can fit at least two fingers into your own vagina then you've probably already broken it.
Having a broken hymen does not mean that you aren't a virgin anymore. You're a virgin until you have sex (even in he "only put it in a little bit")
2007-09-19 10:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
The ONLY way to lose your virginity is by having sex.
2007-09-19 11:00:16 · answer #4 · answered by Tara662 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No suggestions... Sex is the only way.. It sounds to me like you are not even old enough to be asking a question like that....
2007-09-19 10:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kelsey's Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there isnt an answer for this question......
you are considered a VIRGIN until you have sex...
period
breaking the "hymen" has nothing to do w/ virginity, as you can break it by riding a bike when you are like 6.
2007-09-19 10:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ride a bike really hard or shove a tampon up there to break your hymen. But you'll still be a virgin.
2007-09-19 10:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is only 1 WAy.
It is to have surgery for polyps, fibroids, or tumors of the vagina. This way they will remove the hymen to operate.
You could always ask the gyno to remove it for you, but you better be in HEAVY SEDATION DEAR. iT COULD BE TRAUMATIC.
2007-09-19 10:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by DREENA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the problem is a hymen that doesn't want to break, the safest method would be to see your gynecologist and have him pierce it.
Doc
2007-09-19 10:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No the only way you can loser your virginity is if you've had sex.
2007-09-19 10:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋