Please do not confuse infatuation with love.
Remember instead, what you had in the best days with the one you love, and work on that. Especially if you are married. Be gentle & kind.Love can turn into the most painful of experiences. Love is not suppose to hurt.
I am happily married for 54 yrs.. I have been attracted to many things about different men, their personality or manners or conversation or looks. I am a friendly person with a great personality, I'm told. I was often hit on. My Hubby is not a jealous man & I never gave him any reason to be. We are who we are.We have kept our marriage young & alive.
No, everything has not been perfect 24/7. It isn't for anyone.
Blessings to you. Hope everything works out well.~~~jill
2007-09-19 13:32:48
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answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7
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OK, don't hate me for saying this.
But you don't love them anymore. You're telling yourself that you do. That's how things have been for awhile, you have to love them...right? Nope. The feelings are gone and you've got the love jitters for someone else.
It's normal. The first step is to accept that you don't love that person anymore. Be nice when you break it to them.
Don't think it's some horrible thing. You can't help how you feel. It just wasn't meant to be. It's happened to me. It's not fun when things turn nasty and people accuse other people, and oh, it can be messy. But if the guy's decent he'll understand and move on.
Best of luck.
2007-09-19 20:38:22
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answered by ~S~ is for Stephanie! 6
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No, because I'm in love with the person I love. I don't just love him.
If it is happening to you my guess is you may love your mate, but no longer be in love with them. Perhaps you're more like good friends, but the magic has left the building.
2007-09-19 16:36:19
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answered by Black Kitten 5
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Nah! I am truly in love with my B/F and there is no way I could ever fall for anyone else!!!
2007-09-19 16:42:21
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answered by Anonymous
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im in love with one person an only one person...my boyfriend still has feelings for someone else but its a different kinda love...
2007-09-19 16:34:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Ah...the answer is yes. But then I was coldly reminded that fantasy is best left remembered as fantasy. Beware of confusing infatuation with 'love.'
2007-09-19 16:29:26
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answered by Anonymous
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You are???
Oh my God!
What about you and Ryan G?
Oh, I went to your 360 and I think I know who you like.
2007-09-19 17:52:59
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answered by A Girl With a Dream 7
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I just wish I had one person to love! You guys are greedy!
2007-09-19 17:38:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Its looking that way, but distance is btwn us and time, don't know what future will bring, we will see always NIF
2007-09-19 16:45:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Sadly yes! It's confusing and exhilarating all at the same time! =/
2007-09-19 16:31:30
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answered by F-1 says KISS IT! 7
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