we went out for a year, broke up for a year, and got back. while mending we were very open about all of these wild fantasies we had. one of hers was that she'd live a double life, ideal gf with me and party girl tramp once in a while.
she goes out with her freinds about once a month, often enough to dance clubs (but sometimes to bowl, etc). she has freinds that hook up once in a while, but she is very shy and has never hd the guts to do anything like that. i think that little bit of jelousy is part of the fuel for her fantasy.
at any rate, i indulge in her fantasy by talking about it, what a night out for hr could be like, and even role playing. i act like its all for her . . . but more and more i'm getting really into it. The idea blows my mind, and i get crazy hot just thinking about the whole thing. I also think it'd be hot to watch her dance dirty with other guys. And who knows, make her fantasy a reality? I don't know . . . I feel crazy, but good crazy, even though everyone would think bad crazy.
2007-09-19 08:03:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Has someone thought ever at the time of despair that there is possibility of light at the end of the tunnel? Hope is the basic motivational force to go ahead. Hypothetically speaking we can say that “hope” and “faith” sits alongside and they are not far away from faith, “belief” is also near about, and very close to “conviction”. There is strong possibility that hope saved a lot of lives, reached more goals, solved lot of problems and overcome many obstacles than any other quality we know.
When all else fails, hope shines. Medical doctors will tell you that often patients started on the road to recovery when they had hope. Hope inspires belief and being component of subconscious mind it produces chemical changes in the brain which comes into action when we start losing hope. Having hope creates a new sense of belief and in many cases a new sense of determination. This rekindles the fire to survive.
If you want to create more hope within your self, you can help by creating thoughts that produce the fertile ground from which new belief can grow. Instead of accepting the despair of futility, create the hope of possibility.
2007-09-19 08:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by b_banth 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All people have different preferences....
But honestly, to me, it seems that your intimate relationship is not satisfying to you or to her...because why else would you want something "crazy" like this? Do the two of you lack craziness and this is the only way to compensate? And you don't even care if that one guys she sleeps with falls in love with her and pursues her? By the way...despite what she may tell you, all women crave at least some security, it actually feels GOOD when the boyfriend/husband shows a tiny bit of jealousy every once in a while. I would be offended if my boyfriend didn't care that slept with another guy every month! I am curious to find out what boundaries you would set? Not falling in love w/ the guy? --- you can't control the heart, you can't control feelings, but you CAN control actually sleeping with someone...you never know when she might fall in love with the guy after he ends up being better in bed than you! I think you are playing with fire here....be careful, sex usually results in some sort of emotions, you won't even see it coming.....
2007-09-19 08:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Yul'ka 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think bad crazy ,, A dirty girl is dirty not someone to be in love with ,,,
2007-09-19 08:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it, get a threesome with another chick
2007-09-19 08:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by dog2868 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋