and has it worked out? how long for, and what was the best thing about getting back together
2007-09-19 07:30:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it would seem that the common thread is that people don't resolve the problems of the past
2007-09-19 08:12:54 · update #1
I tried it twice and didnt work either time! But, I truly believe if BOTH of you really want it to work, it will. You may have to work to regain trust etc but, yes, I think it can work if you`re both sure its what you want.
And...best thing about getting back together was the getting back together bit...! That was worth it even if it didnt work in the end !!!
2007-09-19 10:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by gip55 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and I'm wondering why things aren't better. I have thoughts of ditching him and finding someone "new", with whom i can start a new romance on a clean slate.
But then I read somewhere, that the reason for unhappiness and breakups was because people didn't put in enough effort. They took the easy way out and just ditched each other for someone new. They weren't willing to undo the mistakes they made with the same person. The bottom line was that, whether it was a new person, or the same one, we're still having the same problems because it is in us.
"So, succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person, but learning to love the person you found"
I was pretty touched by the statement, because of how true it is. No-one is perfect, and learning to love someone in spite of their faults is what makes something work.
Thus, we got back
2007-09-19 07:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I split up for about 6 months..we have been back together since feb. The only thing that is hard for me is that he saw and slept with another women while we were seperated (so did I) but that part is hard to get over. Other than that our marriage is stronger now. I knew we should be together when even though I was with someone else I was thinking about him and he was with someone else and couldn't stop thinking about me.
2007-09-19 07:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lolligager 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I divorced and then remarried the same man. He was an alcoholic and I remarried him after he sobered up. He's still sober to this day, but unfortunately a whole new set of obsessions took over where the alcohol left off. We divorced again in December and the third time is NOT the charm!!!
2007-09-19 08:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did and I wish I didn't fet back with him. We split for a reason. We got back together, married and now I am totally miserable. We have the same problems that we had before. My advice is to just move on.
2007-09-19 07:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by cam57 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definite I did. whilst i became 17, I broke up with my bf over some stupid ingredient. We have been separated for style of three weeks. besides, i became rather pissed--certainly i became rather lacking him yet i became pretending to be a grand diva--besides, i became in my acquaintances motor vehicle and we've been making use of via this hamburger stand and that i see my ex who comes working as much as the motor vehicle and pounding on the window. I informed my buddy topersistent off, yet he did not. So me and the ex start up arguing and then he softens and tellls me he desires to speak to me privately. So i bypass off with him. long tale short, we kiss, make up, and each thing is glad for style of four months and then all of us started drifting aside. i assume the drugs that we the two all started doing did not help, the two. besides, it did not final. We by no skill rather formally broke up as quickly as we've been given lower back mutually. We only went our separate strategies and then he moved away. i don't sense sorry approximately it regardless of the undeniable fact that. i think of we actually relatives member yet another, however the timing became all incorrect, you comprehend?
2016-12-17 05:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom and dad split and got remarried and later divorced again . She said it was not worth it to remarry , they split the first time for a reason and that reason was the same the 2nd time around.
I dated someone and we broke up and got back together and 6mths later it was the same bull crap and we split again.
2007-09-19 07:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't work.I did it, twice (how stupid is that)?
The underlying problems don't go away, they just hide for a while, creeping back up on you when you least expect it.
It's NEVER worth it in my opinion! Wish I hadn't, so much time wasted!
2007-09-19 07:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it worked out like 3 times in one night. and the best part: she wasn't there in the mourning.
2007-09-19 07:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by Idealguy? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i left my husand for about 2 months and came back aftr he begged me it's been about two years now that we've been together but it's still the same drama ! things havn't changed but ...I still love him !
2007-09-19 07:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋