Am I the only gay alive that cannot perform with a woman?

Question

as in intimately? i just feel that i would never make in the straight for pay. am i failure?

dannii you are so hot. yes. you are. and the thought of a girl having sex with me - is to much for me. no offense either. it's true though. i feel your revoltion.

but i can't have sex with women tee.

Answer 1

Of course you are NOT a failure, you are gay...big deal. Why would you even want to play there? Are failures and successes are NOT measured by whom we sleep with.

Answer 2

Excuse me but you've pulled your train of thought completely off track. Gay for pay is one thing ....a gay guy performing with a woman ...is another.

Do you even know how many gay guys are/ were married and have/had kids? Ask Tab, Tegarst and so many others.

Being gay does not absolutely signify an inability to be intimate with a woman.

Edit: Kyle..it's fine. I used to have sex with women..but it was not "real" for me like sex with men. It's because I'm gay. I mean I went through the motions..but I had to use so much imagination etc.

Answer 3

I was in the closet in my teens and early 20's. I was able to perform. All the way up to about 24 or 25, I didn't have any problems since the d@mn thing wouldn't go down. It'd go up with a touch - any touch. Luckily **** control came to me at that age, and I was forced to confront what I knew was inevitable - that I was gay. I suspect you *could* perform if you were in a position that required it (no pun intended on positions). But since it is no longer really necessary, why go through the bother?

I am almost tempted to try to censor the story about the gay for pay guy I "encountered" once, but I doubt I could do it and still pass the TOS policies :P

Answer 4

I certainly have no problem performing with women. Being a lesbian helps though. I mean, c'mon, I'd never have sex with a guy (for cash or not). You're gay, you don't want to have sex with women. That's kinda the first qualification of being gay.

Answer 5

....huh?
since when do gay ppl have sex with woman lmao
there is a reason they r called gay
no u r not a failure just if u dont get atrracted by girls u r gay just be proud of yourself and dont like a failure at all
come on be proud of your flag
y is it important whether or not if u can have sex with a woman?
just find a guy that loves u for u

Answer 6

no you are not a failure. I can NEVER do anything intimately with a guy. The those makes me sick. No offensive I just love women.

Answer 7

What you, and others like you, have is a PSYCHOLOGICAL BLOCK!!! You COULD have "intimate relations" with a woman, but for some reason, that block is preventing you from doing so! Gays always preach "openmindedness", and go on and on about how "love knows no gender". What a crock!!! If that were true, they would have NO PROBLEM "performing" with the opposite sex. All they would have to do is get with someone they GENUINELY care for, turn out the lights, and let nature take its course! I'll bet you have never even given a woman a CHANCE to see if you can be aroused into action. That doesn't sound so "openminded" to ME!!!!!!

*EDIT* "Can't" lives on WON'T street!!!!!

Answer 8

Kyle, no reason to torture yourself over it. A gay guy who can't 'perform' with a woman sounds natural to me. As a straight man I would not be 'able' to 'perform' with a man. I've tried to picture myself with another guy--I really don't think so. I can't answer...or relate to...the question on prostitution.

Answer 9

i have tried and failed its impossible 4 me unless i like had 10 e tabs or summat,--guys no problem so if ur a failure then i am an thousands of others<3

Answer 10

at least you tried . many gay men never get close to trying . since youre gay , this is not a failure .