I’m 18, and my ex boyfriend and I broke up last summer like in 06. We only dated for like 9 months, but we acted like we were married, to the point where his family thought we would. Some thing Is just not right, and I really need help with solving this! I had a ring, we rushed into everything. Had unprotected sex.. And one day he just changed, and all of a sudden the family that loved me so much hated me. He deicide to break up with me over my work phone, and threaten me.. So that night I went to his house and dropped his stuff off with one of my friends, some one keyed his car n blamed me ( I think it was someone in his family) I had a positive pregnancy test and I told him, we were at his brothers house and they asked me to go to food lion to get them sweet tea, so I did. And when I came back there was a EPT sitting there and I had to take it. So I did, and it came up negative ( so they said).. One day we were at the baseball fields watching his 6 year old nephew play baseball and his aunt showed up and ran up in front of everyone and started screaming and yelling all the kids were looking, just because of me? I walked away and from him. Well I haven’t had my period scene then, and I have gained a lot of weight in general.. Its been like 15 months, I don’t understand anything that is going on..when I lay down and look at my stomach its always jumping, constantly.. If I touch it and I “am ticklish” the other side of my stomach will jump and its all weird..I pee really thick, and sometimes I have a lot of thick gue it seems like..
My ex boyfriend also spread a bunch of rumors about me, so I can’t go to anyone.. It will just get back to him.. Please help me
2007-09-19 06:56:56 · 16 answers · asked by lauren j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ok you need to see a dr. when was the last time you had sex with him? And his family is mean...... but you not having a period in over a year is really wierd.
2007-09-19 07:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow Im extremely sorry to hear that all of this has happened to you, It seems like its in your greatest interested that you have gotten away from him and his bipolar family!! But as far as no period for 15 months that alone is asking for a doctors visit, The fact that your stomach has become that big and your pee is really thick is most likely indicating something is wrong with your kidneys! Please take this seriously my family has a hereditary diseases called Polysystic Kidney Disease and its very serious, your stomach becomes enlarged becuse of the large cysts on your kidneys and your kidneys will continue to grow this cyst like mass. I promise im not trying to scare you just giving you some information, but even if you dont have insurance you can work a payment plan out with the hospital when you go for a visit trust me! this is important because this is your life your dealing with. But also you could not be pregnant if this has been going on for 15 months because you would be seriously overdue! by like 5 months and im almost positive that medically impossible but hey you never know, but you still need to check out any possibilities with your docotr! So I wish you the best of luck with everything!
2007-09-19 07:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't had sex in the past 9 months, you need to visit the ob/gyn and have a body scan.
If you have, take another test. It may just have been too early for a positive result.
TX Mom
Not an expert
P.S. You could get a stethescope and listen to your tummy. If you find a heartbeat on either side of your abdomen between the ribcage and the pelvis, and it's 100-160, there's a kid in there.
2007-09-19 07:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. this is a difficult one. First, get a test again and take it, the jumping belly is really odd. It does seem like a really really long time if you were to be pregnant!
There is someone that you can go to: the doctor! This is all really weird, the symptoms that is.
About the ex, he is even weirder. Don't pay them any attention. You are doing the right thing by avoiding them!
2007-09-19 07:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Brooke S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well one why let him control you LIFE? I cant answer your question about your tummy but i can suggest you to go to the doctors.... Just because crap gets back to him should not make your health suffer!! You need to take control in this situation and put your foot down!! Who cares about what he thinks... Yes you may still have some feelings for him but he knows that he can see it so because of that he thinks hes gonna run your life! you are a grown woman who has rights and can do whatever you please... IM TELLING YOU STAND UP TO HIM!!! and his family you need to put them in there place!!! people may say respect your elders but why respect them when they cant respect you... You are an adult now start acting like one and take up for yourself!! Please go see a doctor and I hate the fact to know how those crude people had treated you... Good luck and Best wishes!!
2007-09-19 07:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by marriedgirl@19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 11:27:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently 30 weeks pregnant and my stomach "jumps" like crazy so I strongly suggest you go to the doctor to be sure. Or talk to your mom if thats an option.
2007-09-19 07:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know that you are not pregnant.
they way you descibing, not having you period and seeing jumping in you stomach sounds like theres someone in there
go to a clinic! take another test. and if you are pregnant and the baby is born take his a s s to court for child support
2007-09-19 07:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you could be preg if the first test came back pos. you need to go to the clinic and have a preg test by doing a blood sample. they "gue" could be the extra discharge that women get when they are preg.
2007-09-19 07:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by tami p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way to be preggo at 15 months. hun, you realy need to go to the doctor. right away. something might be seriously wrong. i wish you all the luck in the world
2007-09-19 07:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by Andrea G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋