i am 16, ginger, i dont seem to have quite as much luck with girls as some of my mates - girls always seem to view me as a good friend and nothing more.
i just shrug off any ginger jokes made at me ( and there are alot!)
i am also 6ft tall and go t the gym 3 times a week
2007-09-19 05:05:08 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
We don't not go out with guys because of their hair colour. But if people around where you live don't fancy you, may be its because you aren't their type. If you don't find someone soon, why not go brunette?
But stay ginger until then ;)
2007-09-19 05:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Zorro. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its personality that counts at least to anyone that is worth u going out with, if they cant look beyond hair colour or any other physical attribute then forget them. u r doing the right thing shrugging off the jokes a good sense of humour is always attractive and sounds like ur fit if u go to the gym, dont worry about it the right girl will come along. just think how many celebrities are ginger and they dont have any problem getting women. good luck.
2007-09-19 11:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a break. You're only 16. Your appearance has little to do with a trully successful relationship. It is your personality and character that counts. Stay true to yourself. Ignore the idiots with their "ginger" jokes. You have a lot going for you - 6feet tall and fit?? Wow that's a good start. The right girl will come along. Have patience. Maybe you will meet someone nice at the gym. Remember, you will get back whatever you give so be nice :)
2007-09-26 13:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by teatotler 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I reckon you are just being paranoid, just look at people like Bradley off eastenders, he is ginger but hes gorgeous! Theres also a guy my best friend is dating and he is ginger and the nicest guy you could meet! Hair colour ain't nothing but a thing and you know what, it's the girls loss if she doesn't wana date you because she is obviously too shallow to see past the looks. I also think redhead girls are gorgeous too! BUT maybe if you aren't gettin any female attention, you might need to do a rain check on your personality (I don't know you to judge), but I for one am definately a personality girl, and if your personality stinks, then so does the rest of you! Or maybe you could be shy? Just take a step back and think about what it could be (excluding your hair, you should be liked for you, not your hair colour!). I know you will meet someone special soon xxxx
2007-09-21 22:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never even heard of the "ginger" thing until recently. In the US, this is not an issue, and I had some girl friends who specifically thought "gingers" (although we didn't know to call them that) were super hot! If you are British move here, between being a ginger and your accent you'll get lots of girls.
2007-09-19 05:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by europa312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself, am not particularly attracted to ginger men, however, there are attractive ginger people, it's just my personal preference and I would certainly not dismiss a man because he's ginger.. Obviously there's gotta be some attraction, but realistically, it's personality that counts and I would never go out with someone who couldn't make me laugh...
you're still young though, you've got plenty of time.. .you don't need girls messing with your head just yet, specially shallow ones!!
Don't worry about the ginger jokes, people are so harsh, it's good that you're ignoring it.
2007-09-19 06:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by elin j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is a bad stigma attached to been ginger but the good side is you don't have to wade through a load of fake girls who are going out with you for the vain reason of what your hair colour is like, you may get less attention but the attention you do get will be from genuine girls only, think about it!
2007-09-19 05:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by SCALLY ALI 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey tom,
girls your age are not grown up anyway and think to much about what other people think. there is nothing wrong with people with ginger hair the same as blondes and brunettes were all the same and with time girls will understand that wait a few years until they grow up abit
then you will find someone that loves you for you and not your hair. you sound lovely so dont let all this get to you keep your chin up love will come your way soon.
blondie xx
2007-09-19 05:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I'm ginger, and had no problem getting bf's!!! So no, learn to love it!
People pay loads to try and get natural ginger looking hair...so walk with pride!
I used to hate it, but now i wear colour enhancing shampoo and show it off!!!
Take no notice of the nasty answers you've got...they are stupid and have no life!
Good luck! Just smile and let your personality shine through.
2007-09-20 04:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by angeljen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go out with a ginger boy! Definately- its about whats on the inside- not whats on the outside.
Personally if a boy can make me laugh, it doesnt matter how he looks on the outside. Just be more confident and the right girl will come along for you one day
2007-09-19 05:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by Georgie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course i would go out with someone if they were ginger
although i do prefer blondes, but to be honest, hair colour is just hair colour, its no big deal really. ginger looks really good on some guys, the redder colour, but thats if they're already attractive. i think if you're unattractive a lot of features would make you seem more unattractive (being ginger, glasses, braces etc) but if you're attractive then these don't knock your appearance
2007-09-19 05:27:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋