i love tat gal very 4m past 2yrs but it doesnt matter anythng to her, i proposed her twice, she rejectd, then i didnt try to talk also wit her after tat, but after many days i only told her hi.... and she told y m again troubling her... i tried 2 leav her also but i cant do so.. its like imposs..... now wat should i do.. i love very muc............
2007-09-19 04:53:36 · 23 answers · asked by Ali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to wake up and realize that she has firmly told you over and over again that she does not like you in the same way.
Then, move on. Plain and simple. I'm not entirely sure if you "love" her, perhaps it's more of an obsession. There are a lot of other women out there that can actually tell you that they love you back without complaining about it. Make it your goal to find one of them.
2007-09-19 04:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are planty of other women out there. The problem you have here is refered to as oneitis. Its a sickness where a guy is dumb enough to like one woman sooo much that he will always act a fool around her, and she will have no interest in him because of that.
Your best bet is to forget about her, whatever it takes. Also make sure that you don't look at her anymore. She'll probably start getting a little interested when you ignore her, but you have to be strong and move on. If she comes after you later, cool, but I'm guessing that she thinks youre hella needy right now.
I'd reccomend taking this as an opportunity to learn so that you can have more success in the future. Read "The Art of Seduction," by Robert Greene, and you'll probably see what you did to drive her away, as well as how not to do it next time.
2007-09-19 05:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mike K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you eventualy realize that she could give 2 sh*ts about you and that you deserve to be loved 100% ,then you will move on. But unil then, you're goin g through what 99% of teens go through..."unrequited love". I was "in love" for 5 years too, with someone who "did not feel the same way". I basically realized I was trying to buy her love with concert tix just so i could spend time with her. When it finally clicked that she would rather go to the concert with someone else than me, then I moved on. Not to mention, love is supposed to be natural and mutual. As a 34 -year-old looking back, I can guarantee you that in 10 years from now you too will look back at your situation and think "wtf was i thinking?" The best thing to do is find someone new who is cuter or even just more interesting and focus all your energy o nthat new person. From experience I can tell you that no matter how much "convincing" or "trying" to make it work it will never happen. Love isn't about logic, it's alla bout chemistry , regardless of how senseless it seems shes with another guy. this is just my personal experience and i did the same thing yo uwill do after reading this....still try and get her because evryone is "wrong" lol good luck!
2016-05-18 06:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let go of this girl. It not good when you like someone and they don't correspond the feeling. It's better if you leave her alone and find someone else to love or like because eventurally the one who will be hurt in this situation is you.
It may seem difficult to believe but you will forget about her and someone else will come along. All you have to do is put an efffort in putting her in your past.
Good luck
2007-09-19 05:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't want you in her life then just pull back and when you are really gone from her life she will know what she missed out on because I've been there and she will come back to you that's only if her pride isn't too high to admit she was in the wrong and if she is leading you on then that dosent help the situation either. i know its hard to pull away from someone you love but just try and see what happens also you might want to say a prayer for her as well.
2007-09-19 05:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mizz Jazzy B..... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put up with that leave her alone if that's what she wishes for you to do! There are plenty of women out their for you. Once you leave her and she realizes that no other man is going to propose to her she will want you back and you can ask her why are you troubling me? Make that trick feel stupid! KARMA IS A *****!
2007-09-19 05:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by ~Miss Lynn~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and get over her. If you cannot do that, get some counseling. There is a point where love can turn into obsession and when the other person doesn't have feelings for you, it can be interpreted as "Stalking".
2007-09-19 04:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obsessing over her and it's creeping her out. You need to leave her alone - it's not impossible, you just don't want to badly enough.
You probably have no chance with her anymore now, but even if you did, you're making things worse. If you run into her, you can nod, or wave, but don't say anything and, at least for now, don't even smile unless she smiles first.
2007-09-19 05:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Bill F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept that something isnt going to happen between you 2.
This happened to my friend and i told her to have just one night where you cry to get it all out.
Then when the next day comes you will feel loads better.
It worked for both of us, and i hope it works for you.
Good luck.
PS there will always be someone else who will return your feelings so dont waste your time on this one.
2007-09-19 04:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she doesn't like you "that way" because you are an illiterate imbecile who needs a little more education before attempting a loving human relationship. Just a thought. Do you need a translator for what I just said?
2007-09-19 04:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by matty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋