"I divorced my husband because I borde and needed varity. I need my own space. Marriager is overrated." They were married for like 6 yrs.
Is this a selfish person? Is she a user? Is she self- involved? Greedy? Did she ever truly LOVE her husband? We he a convience for her? I'm a 21 yr old guy having a hard time trying to figure any of that out in this day and age. The line between selfish and freedom. Is there one? We just seem like such a messy culture. The whole relationship, "love" thing just seem's like such a joke! I just don't believe in it. I often feel I'm too cynical about people, but hearing stuff like racks my brain. What if that was my wife, what would that say about our realtionship? If we even had one. I know everyone is about their freedoms and I can do whatever want, when I want. THE 60's! But has that made us a selfish bunch of people? Love, relationships dose it mean anything?
IF THIS IS A STUPID QUESTION MOCK ME IF YOU WILL. . .
2007-09-19 03:17:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I consider that "love" grows right through a marriage. It may change, you may have disagreements but you can usually talk these things through or just agree to disagree.
True "love" is vibrant and wonderful it is not just sexual.
Ask people who have been married for twenty or thirty years,.
They can usually complete each others' thoughts, so close have they grown!
2007-09-19 07:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in today's society, people are overstimulated in a sense. Marriage is supposed to be about sacrifice. YOu have to be willing to give up some things to gain great love that can last a lifetime.
Today, people don't plan their futures as they should. YOu need to be sure before you marry that you have the same short term and long term goals. You ahve to work toward those goals and meet them. Sure there are going to be some bumps in teh road, but they are just a part of life. YOu can't plan, but you can prepare for the unexpected.
The infactuation that people feel when they first enter a relationship goes away after a period of time. it's different in each couple. What's left, if the relationship survives, should be a deeper, more respectful love that is the deepest friendship you've ever known. Most people see this transition as the love dying, but it's actually a very beautiful thing.
2007-09-19 03:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Allison P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think in life everyone should be selfish to obtain true happiness.... if she wasent happy and she was bored then she should get out and if the guy didn't realize that then they werent meant to be together. i mean he obviously didn't kno her enough and if he did realize it he didn't do much to keep her happy so he didn't deserve her . LOVE is real i believe marriage is overated too many young ppl get married too soon and ppl change as they get older.. love can be lost..feelings emotions change... and i kinda believe in common law that way. full commitment is a big deal . a relationship can mean a lot .. two ppl helping eachother out and enjoying eachother. respecting each others feelings. fullfilling sexual needs. being a comfort in the life of another. . she in someways is selfish and is not but thats not necessarly a bad thing.. she stuck it out for 6 years she probably did love him but it was lost.. so she moved on thats life and reality . why be with someone if your not totally happy? i dont find that a bad selfishness its good.. cause maybe she'll be happy later on in life with someone else that can totally fullfill her needs.. wouldn't say shes greedy
2007-09-19 07:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See here is the problem......these people are just dumb. There is no easy way to put it. I hate to put people down but in this case i cant see anyway around it. She obvioulsy got married for the wrong reasons.
Love is not a JOKE. Love is there, in so many places, besides just in relationships. I think love and relationships are what is holding this world together. Otherwise we would all just not give a flying ****. Then there would be more murder, greedy corporations, drug users, rap artist, rapist, etc.
Love is there man.....you just have your eyes closed.
2007-09-19 05:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it was a marriage of convenience. And VERY SELFISH. She needs to grow up.
Yes, there is love out there, but to find it, you must be open to that. If you never let your guard down, it may never come. Yes, there are going to be heartaches. It's part of it. But I believe in love and have finally found it again, too. But it honestly took a lot of time and effort, just like anything in life that is worthwhile. Good luck with your search!
2007-09-19 03:40:53 · answer #5 · answered by Forgot How 2 Show Him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was certainly say that that was a selfish thing to do. Someone who would do such a thing sounds vain, and self-centered. Perhaps that is saying too much, but doing something like that sounds like breaking marriage vows.
2007-09-19 04:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loved her husband she wouldnt have left. She would have talked to him to try to work through her issues with him. Yes shes selfish. She broke her promise to always be with him in favor of her own selfish pursuits.
2007-09-19 03:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freedom potential all human beings is authorized to be triumphant besides as fail. i think of liberals are greater interested in result based consequences. In that kind of device in basic terms the elites are allowed to be egocentric.
2016-11-05 21:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
selfish
2007-09-19 03:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋