ok i am the life and soul of the party and have a trillion friends but the thing is i swear coz i am popular and a joker i get people using me to entertain them :(
i know who my REAL REAL friends are and it's only 5 people who are there for me (i am lucky so i shouldn't be complaining really)
also coz i am popular and a joker it frightens off people who fancy me because they can't get on my level.....should i tone it down a bit???
the thing is i can't help it really coz i love to have a laugh and enjoy life (you only live once so...) and even when it comes to my career i've done so much that others can't compete too. i hope i ain't making people feel less to me because i really don't look at superficial things and act better than anybody else coz all that stuff doesn't matter to me it's just something i've done and been lucky in
2007-09-19 03:03:23 · 13 answers · asked by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i love you too kyle ♥
2007-09-19 03:13:28 · update #1
basically i am trying to ask...should i try to stop being the popular and loud one (i am by nature though)
2007-09-19 03:16:53 · update #2
ty 4 kyle: no i think he likes you ♥ ♥
2007-09-19 03:23:47 · update #3
yeah that's right: lol! lol!
2007-09-19 04:07:47 · update #4
yes u sound perfect 2 me as well,is Kyle wanting 2 date?u
2007-09-19 03:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by tasty 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Should you stop being the loud and popular one? First, you are who you are. How do people react to you? Are they turned off and do they seem to think you are obnoxious? It sounds like most people don't feel that way and like you. So, I don't think you need to change.
No matter how you are, someone will always not like you. That's the way life is. For everyone you attract, someone else is turned off. The only reason you need to change is if you are doing something to bother people and something is causing you to lose friends and relationships. If not, stay as you are and be the fun person you are.
2007-09-19 10:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Michael B - Prop. 8 Repealed! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you are losing friends because of certain personality traits you have, then you have to ask yourself this question: Do I care more about the people around me, or about myself?
There's no right answer to this question, of course. It's different for everyone. It might be that you need to "tone down" your jokes if they are inappropriate or offensive or badly timed, or it might be that you're just hanging around the wrong sort of people. This is a really personal question that I don't think anyone on this site can answer correctly unless we knew you. Good luck sweetie. ^_^
2007-09-19 03:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, don't change a thing about who you are! Who you are now is what you are-- lively, fun and full of laughter. Do you know how many people would love to be in your shoes? It's a gift. Use it to the best of your ability. Believe me, if someone wants to talk to you badly enough, they'll figure out a way to step to you. Enjoy life! You only have one! Peace!!!
2007-09-19 03:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Pnthr wmn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get excited much? Hummmm!
Got that impression, a bit, from what you have said.
The best thing a person can do with their life is be themselves.
Don't worry about what others think about it (non-friends) just do what you are best at.
Living your life as others would have you do, is not living, it's just existing. I know, been there done that and finally learned my lesson. I am 62 & enjoy who & what I have become.
Life to you & happiness
2007-09-19 03:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by dragon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 01:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by sicilia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to tone yourself down, just be who you are!! Don't let people use you either, go with your gutt instinct when choosing friends. Laugh and enjoy life!! We need more people like you in the world- DO NOT CHANGE!!!
2007-09-22 18:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by ziggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be yourself and enjoy life because life is short.
2007-09-19 03:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Angelina N 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion if you compromise yourself and then do find someone they have fallen for a fake you and not the real you.
2007-09-19 03:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
FINALLY SOMEBODY WHO BARES THE SAME BARBED WIRE CROSS THAT I BARE!!!
I JUST *KNOW* PEOPLE ARE USING ME FOR ALL MY COMICAL VALUE AND MY SEXINESS TOO!!!!
YEAH, THAT'S RIGHT!!! THEY ONLY WANT ME FOR MY CONSTANT LAUGHS AND OH SO SCRUMPTIOUS BEHIND
YOU KNOW WHAT, MY SISTER!??!??!?!
WE GET THE LAST LAUGH, HAHA...OHHHH, WE SOOO DO *BECAUSE* NOT ONLY ARE WE SUPER FUNNY BUT WE ARE SUPER HOT AND THEY ALL JUST WANT A PIECE OF US
2007-09-19 04:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋