there this guy who supposed to be my friend.1st we live in a very small townevery one knows each other.1.5 years ago he told everyone 1 had a cocain problem when i have not touched it in over 5 years.he was the 1 with a problem when people confronted him he tried to turn it on to me.the other day he was in a bar told everyone i was screwing his gf.so he could get into some girls pants well all these things back fired on him the question is do i still be his friend or write him off as a friend. by the way i did not screw his gf im way to busy with work and my son and gf to be screwing other people plus it not in my nature to cheat.
2007-09-19 02:43:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am gonna turn your question back at you. Is this what you want in a friend? Someone who accuses you and "make up stories" about you. Nobody is perfect. There are some faults that we may be able to live with but I don't want a friend who is gonna "make me look bad" in front of other people. I would drop him like hot potato.
2007-09-19 02:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is no friend of yours. I am going through the same thing in a way with my own son and I had to write him off which broke my heart, but life is too short for you to fill it with negitive energy. Embrace your family and true friends and go on with your life. Hey my grandmother always told me that if you could count your REAL Friends on two hands somebody was being fooled. True friends are RARE, remember that
2007-09-19 09:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mamaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like this you need enemies?
Don't make a big deal of dumping the friendship, just go on to more positive activities and limit your contact with this person. Those he tells all about you will soon notice that he doesn't even frequent the same circle of friends and activities you do and see him for the liar he is....
Keep you head up, the truth will out in the end.
2007-09-19 09:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by momatad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose him. Friends don't do this to friends. I am sure his "problem" is probably (more than likely) contributing to this childish behavior. Either way he is no friend. He is using you to his advantage. Please don't trust him and if you feel like you don't want to completely break off the friendship I would have a serious talk with them. If they listen then you are getting somewhere but if they just shake their head and act like it then no they aren't worth fighting with. I am sure your a great person and only want the best for them but you cant help someone who wont help themselves. If you have to keep in touch over the phone and thats it. eventually they will bring you down with them if they allready havent.
2007-09-19 09:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With friends like that..who needs enemies?
Being you live in a small town.. I would ignore him completely.. The true friends are the ones that don't gossip about you and when they hear gossip about you, they totally ignore it..or tell it like it truly is, in defense of you..
In time this will die down and people will forget all about it.. and move on to other gossip..
So kick this guy to the curb and go on with your life ...
2007-09-19 09:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by Rebel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, he's not much of a friend to start with if he is running his mouth about you. True friends would never do that.
2007-09-19 09:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by rooksgirl17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is not a "friend" of yours!
think about it -- talking crap about you behind your back ? accusing you of things which are not true?
that is not the behavior of a friend, but it does seem like he's jealous of you for whatever reasons...... so take it from there!
take care, too.
2007-09-19 09:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write him off and go on with your life.
2007-09-19 09:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Teresa S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real friends dont do this to people, I would cut my ties and move on
2007-09-19 09:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by Alysia B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just turn my back on him and wouldn't look back.
Just move on with your life and forget about him, he doesn't deserve to have you as his friend.
Good luck x : )
2007-09-19 09:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋