me n my girlsfriends family dnt get along.. weve been together for almost 3 years living together almost 2 years and she never sees her family they never call or anything but then when they do come around and knowing well out we dnt along she takes there side and goes with them and make us fight until its over with and lies and sneaks around w them...mind u i hate her family! i try to tell her to be careful cuz if she acts like that shes gna lose the 1s who care about her for the ones who dnt n wanna jus see us fight... what should i do? please help
2007-09-19 02:37:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
but me n her family stopped talking after the fact we were living together and what not... now they jus try to come around cuz they know well fight... and i dnt like how when she is with them she will tell me one thing and sneak around with them and do what she told me she wldnt
2007-09-19 02:48:25 · update #1
Even if YOU don't get along with her family, it's still HER family.
She should be able to go and do things with them when she'd like... I'm sure you can occupy your time while she spends time with them.
It would be very gracious (and sane) of you to let your girlfriend know that, even though you don't get along with her family, you are happy to give her the space and time to visit with them herself.
People in relationships should never have to give up friends or family, just because their partner "doesn't like" them.
stop the insanity, the arguing about it, and just let her do what she needs to do....
2007-09-19 02:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is torn between her family who she doesn't want to be disloyal to and the one she wants to be with. She is not respecting you too allow this happen but she may be unable to cope with her family's strong behaviors. It can't continue. Respect or nothing!
2007-09-19 10:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by Pure Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound very young
2007-09-19 09:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by tatsmom4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋