i am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 20. If we go to the clinic to get checked will he get in trouble?

Question

ok we wanna get checked because we have had sex 3 times and all those times i have bleed! we are kinda worried but were scared that in the clinic they will tell him something or he will get in trouble! we also want to see if im pregnant because i've been having pregnancy symptoms!
so can someone please HELP me?!?! ='(

Answer 1

As far as I know, most all states, legal age of consent is 16 years old and the other person can be within 5years difference. Otherwise you have to be 18. You should be fine to go to the clinic and get tested together.

Sometimes you may bleed b/c of too much friction and not enough lubrication or just doing it too rough. But definately get checked out and let them know when you two have sex you bleed.

Good Luck.

Answer 2

I believe that the age of consent in NYS is 17. i dont know where your from. If your that scared, go to the doctor seperately. Or you each make your own appt for around the same time and day and meet there and act as if you dont know each other. A 20 year old should be well enough educated to know how to use safe sex. If you dont want pregnancy use a condom or another form of borth control. You are too young to be worried about pregnancy. slow down and be smart. Dont let anyuone, especially a man pressure you in any way. It is OK to say no or to demand he use a condom. He will have more respect for you if you have respect for yourself. good luck sweetie

Answer 3

In Australia legally you can have sex when you are 16. Where you a virgin when you first had sex with him? Don't stress. Girls often bleed the first few times they have sex. If you have been sexually active before, the doctor may have to examine you. As for thinking you are pregnant a simple home pregnancy test will answer you. Otherwise the doctor can order a blood test to see if you are.

Answer 4

Two things: 1) Clinics generally keep their mouths shut, so you should be safe. You can call them and ask, but they're pretty good about it. 2) If you don't know how to avoid pregnancy, you really, really, REALLY should not be having sex. You're too young, and this relationship is too new, for a baby. Get some education first!

Answer 5

Depends on where you live. Most places you are above the age of consent so your boyfriend will not get in trouble. You can buy pregnancy tests that are very accurate as early as the first day that your period is late at any drug or grocery store.

Answer 6

In most places, 16 is the age of consent so he shouldn't get in trouble. I think you might wanna get checked for STDs and infections as well as pregnancy.

Answer 7

It depends on what state you live in I would guess but I know in New Jersey and in Texas the legal age of consent for a girl is 16. So if your state has the same legal age of consent he will not get in trouble.

Answer 8

the clinic shouldnt say anything to your bf.

You dont even have to takehim if you dont want.

I hope you get the medical attention you need with out fear. If you are NOT pregnant, please be smart and use protection in the future. Ask the clinic about BC options.

I had my daughter at 19 and that as still too young.

Answer 9

umm im probaly not much help but perhaps the reason your bleeding is youv'e been torn, did it leak? because otherwise its quite unlikely your pregnant and just from my opinion i dont think youll get in trouble if you stay anomynous or don't bring your boyfriend along although i'd understand why you'd want to.
In Australia the age limit is 16 but i'm not sure where your from.
best of luck mate..

Answer 10

You should just go by yourself, get checked out, and don't tell who your boyfriend is.

Part of being grown-up enough to have a boyfriend and sex is also being grown-up enough to go to a clinic by yourself if you need to.

If he's got reason to want to get himself checked out he should go to a different clinic alone.