How anti-social are you?

Question

I'm so anti-social sometimes. I even avoid going places with friends and family at times. Conversation just seems forced and pointless. Maybe I'm a little depressed as well.

Answer 1

i detest hearin the phone ring or when somebody knocks on the door im always like OH SH*T NOW WHAT. im not a sociable person at all. theres a few ppl i like hangin out wit but other then that i dont want to be bothered. im not rude to nobody but i wish theyd leave me alone.

Answer 2

Yepp.. sometimes I feel like that. But that's only when I need some time to my thoughts. But when I do hang out with people, (who can carry out a good conversation), I feel really refreshed.
So hiding in your shell is not the answer.. it helps, sometimes, but try to go out there and meet people. I learnt this the hard way.
At first it'll be hard, so keep increasing your social spells gradually.
And there's nothing wrong with you. There's only a very "slight" thing wrong with you. lol ; )
Go out there. Meet interesting people. Forget abt the boring folk, and step into reality: you're not the only cool person or the greatest person around.
Learn to accept people with what you think are their "faults", and disregard them. You need to accept all kinds of people to be happy in this world.

Answer 3

Hrmph! What kind of a question is this anyway! I'm going back to my cave, and you better not bother me again!
Seriously, I used to feel just like you do (especially for the couple of years after I graduated high school). Eventually, as I opened up more and more, I became less and less depressed, and more successful in life. My advice would be to just try speaking your mind, without worrying about what others think, and get out and do stuff and engage others in conversation. It worked for me, it might work for you as well.

Answer 4

i'm very anti-social. i spend around 80% of my time alone...and most of the other 20% is forced. i hate talking on the phone, being alone with someone, it's hard to keep a conversation, i keep thinking i want to be somewhere else and i pretty much only feel comfortable in my own room...alone.

Answer 5

As much as I need to be; Though, I find people so interesting and so helpful in so many ways and needy too, that I love seeing some everyday; it helps move me forward. As long as one continues to move forward becoming a better person it is good for all. So as long as your gratitude and health stay up, then more power to being independent...Its a very good way to search out oneself and discover what it truly is that one wishes to accomplish in life; and then to come out of that shell ready to do what it is one has become determined to do. And, staying away from thoughts, food, places, or people that make you feel depressed is the best way to relax and examine the predicament from a safe distance, conclude weather it is right for yourself or not...just find things that make you happy and are good in the long run and focus on them...focus on what makes you happy and continue to explore your happiness ~ its endless and there to grasp a hold of. Peace be with you =)

Answer 6

Being a body guard forced me to be anti social.

Answer 7

I'm a loner who prefers solitude. I have a small group of friends I've known all of my life. When we get together, I have a blast because I don't feel constricted. The last time I made friends was a decade ago. I dislike small talk with strangers unless it's really necessary, i.e. getting to know your co-workers.

Answer 8

Maybe you are.

I'm the total opposite.
I just got back from shopping and during the time I was there I think I spoke to a dozen shoppers,either in line or picking out an outfit.

I'll talk to anyone.

People can be nice.

Answer 9

Not so much anti just I do alot of drawing and
writing and when the juices are flowin I need to be left alone or the moment is lost.

Answer 10

You aren't antisocial but lesser social.Anti socials are mostly criminals ,vagabonds or mischief makers.It's aptly said that a man is a social animal and so you should be.Take your time but do come back and join the mainstream.It's required for our all round development and happiness.