My gf and I just stared having sex. She lost her virginity to me, about fifteen days ago, she was suppose to have her period at the end of last week, so that makes her about a week late, she is totally paranoid, and stressed. Even when we started we stopped, cause she was it hurt (had a condom) and them tried another time. A couple days later we started without a condom for about less than thirty sec(same case for a few other times). My other worry is that we have been going at it (with a condom) for a long time, we have been ranging from one hour to about two (maybe two and half), is a condom made to last for intercourse for that long? She has "finished" a couple of times, but i did not switch to a new one every time, was/is that a mistake (i only come in a condom and i have pulled out with it on just in case of a rip)? I know its allot of questions but please try to answers!!
2007-09-18 15:48:02 · 13 answers · asked by memy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Dude get a preg test pronto!!! You need to know now not later. Never have contact without a condom. You risk preg every time. Remember condoms are just thin layers of latex and heat and friction will deteriorate them over marathon encounters. Peace out have fun.:)
2007-09-18 15:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anson W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a lot of questions, and I'm going to be honest I just read 3/4 of them. Anytime you go without a condom for any length of time at all, there is a small chance she can get pregnant. Even if you do not ejaculate inside her without one, there is still a minor amount of living sperm in what's known as pre-***. Always use a condom for the whole time you're penis is inside unless you want to be parents. As to the being paranoid and stressed out, she's going to have to do one or both of these things. One, take a chill pill and relax. It is HIGHLY possibly she's causing herself to be late by being stressed out about it. She's either pregnant or not, stressing out over it won't help her. Two, take an over the counter test. They are 99% accurate and it's better to know the truth than worry about it. Then you can think about how to deal with it if she is indeed pregnant. Again, use condoms or birth control or spermicide or two out of three the entire time you're both fully naked. Even if you're not inside her.
2007-09-18 15:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The number of times she comes doesn't matter in terms of condom use- but the number of times YOU come does. A condom shouldn't be used for more than one ejaculation.
There is some sperm in "pre-***," so it's possible, although not all that likely, that she could be pregnant from the time you didn't use a condom. She might just be missing her period due to stress. She can go to a free clinic for a test; I would suggest offering to go with her. http://www.pregnancycenters.org/advantage.asp
"i have pulled out with it on just in case of a rip"
You're always supposed to pull out with the condom on. Otherwise, the sperm would leak out of the condom and into the birth canal. Rips have nothing to do with it.
2007-09-18 15:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ever hear of pre-ejaculate? that's the potent stuff that can get a woman pregnant easily, that's is also the sperm that can be on you even before you have intercourse, and usually is... -you said you would go without a condom for 30 seconds? (hate to tell you but it can be there, and be very ready)...
I think your GF is a bit stressed/nervous which in turn, can delay a period... but I can't rule out the possibility of pregnancy...One way to know for sure, have her take a pregnancy test in another week or so....
2007-09-18 15:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Alexa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not take much. Condoms can slip off or if you were having unprotected sex for even a short period of time it does not take much sperm to fertilize a female's eggs. Wait a little longer and then if she has still not gotten her period then you need to purchase a home pregnancy kit and follow the instructions closely. If you get lucky and she is not pregnant you should count your blessings and wait to have sex until you are both ready for the potential consequences.
2007-09-18 15:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by SGT V 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok. first of all, yes, she can be pregnant. all it takes is contact of your penis on the outside of her vagina. (you don't even have to penetrate her or ***, just your precum on the outside of her vagina is enough to get her pregnant). the only way to know for sure is to have a pregnancy test. now, if she really stressed out about this, and you stated that she is, her body can be responding by not menstruating. stress can stall her period. also, it sounds to me like you guys are in need of a good lubricant. most women only stay "wet" for 10-15 minutes of sex and a lack of lubricant is just begging for you to have a broken condom. periodically pull out and inspect the condom for holes, and make sure you leave a little gap at the tip of the condom so you have some room up there. do a little seach on the internet of how to properly put on a condom to make sure you are doing it right. also, if you put a little drop of lubricant on the inside of the condom, it will increase your sensitivity. if you add too much though, it will slip off. it doesn't matter how many times she cums you don't need to change the condom. you only have to change it after you ***. go get a pregnancy test at your local drug store to know for sure, and keep using condoms, just make sure you are doing it right.
2007-09-18 16:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Wink 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex anymore. If you dont even know what to do with a condom, then you aren't ready.
And look at cha now! She might be pregnant, and here ya are freaking out.
Anyways, she has had a lot happen to her. Her lateness might be she stressing very much, and that can cause a period to be late. If it doesn't come soon, then she needs to get a test.
2007-09-18 15:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Skyleigh's Mom :)™ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's always possible when having sex. But then again she could be stressing herself out so much that she is causing her body to physically act like she is pregnant (not having period, etc...). Buy her a pregnancy test and have her take it so it can ease her worries about it all. But remember if your willing to have sex you better be ready for the baby sooner or later.
2007-09-18 15:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by lil_rebell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Condoms are rigorously tested, one to two hours won't do it. However you should change condoms after each ejaculate. Yes, she could possibly be pregnant. It only takes one sperm. ONE. Just wait and see. And if she is not. And you don't want her to be. WEAR A CONDOM EVERYTIME, THE ENTIRE TIME.
2007-09-18 15:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by T W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your grammar is that of a 5th grader. The thought of kids having sex pisses me off so much for this very reason.
Its most likely that she's concerned and stressed and thats why her period is or may be late. Penis in, baby out, its not rocket science. Its not highly likely that she'd get pregnant like this, but its certainly not impossible.
2007-09-18 15:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋