Are the rules different for men and women? I mean, is it OK for men to be hefty but women should be slim and trim? Do you find it annoying when people say "fat and ugly" as if it's all one word? Would you date or seriously love someone who is plus size? On the other hand, do you think it's possible to be too thin? Are you turned off by too skinny as well as too fat?
2007-09-18 13:15:37 · 25 answers · asked by ♥Lovebird♥ 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm a bit curvy :), and my husband likes that. His philosophy is, "who wants to make love to a chicken carcass". Gotta love him for that! Too thin can be very unattractive to people, just as too heavy can be.
2007-09-18 15:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by But Inside I'm Screaming 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, great answer Tinkerbell.
As to the rest:
Do you feel a person has to be under a certain size to be attractive? No.
Are the rules different for men and women? No.
I mean, is it OK for men to be hefty but women should be slim and trim? You are what you are, there is no right or wrong.
Do you find it annoying when people say "fat and ugly" as if it's all one word? No, it doesn't bother me, that may be how they perceive that person.
Would you date or seriously love someone who is plus size? No, but only because that's my personal choice.
On the other hand, do you think it's possible to be too thin? Yes.
Are you turned off by too skinny as well as too fat? Yes.
I hope my honesty doesn't offend you.
2007-09-18 20:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
YES. Someone has to be of a healthy weight in order to be attractive to me. Protruding bones aren't attractive, but rolls of fat are disgusting too. Here is the thing: no matter how much fat people insist otherwise, being fat is a CHOICE. People claim to have these 'conditions' that cause them to be fat, but that's a load of crap because 99% of the diseases that cause excessive weight gain also cause the sufferer to have mental retardation, and these problems are incredibly rare whereas obesity is far too common. If you choose to eat more calories than you can burn off, then you have to accept the general public's assumption that you are gluttonous and lazy, because basically eating too much IS gluttonous, and if you went out and REALLY exercized, you wouldn't be FAT!!!
I'm 6 feet tall and the most I've ever weighed was about 195, and I was fat. And I have no bullcrap excuses to hand out about it either -- I was just overeating, plain and simple. When none of my clothes would fit me anymore, I cut down on how much I was eating and guess what? I lost the weight! Just like anyone else would if they put in a concerted effort!
2007-09-18 20:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
personally, i think they're are alot of pretty girls who are overweight or chunky. i think the reason ppl associate the words fat & ugly is because a lot of overweight ppl tend not to care about their appearance (dress, makeup, clothes). And there aren't as many good looking overweight guys but hey just because your bigger dosen't mean you can't be attractive, you just have to know how to carry your weight.
2007-09-18 20:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by you will x 3 =) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT! When I think of any person that I find attractive and then sit back and think of WHY, it's invariably the personality. Of course, I'm a woman, so I can only hope that the answer from guys is the same.
2007-09-18 20:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by CEKNB 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm turned off by extremes, when it is obvious they aren't taking care of their health. Moderate deviations in either direction don't matter to me. But I find it's women who are very picky about guys' size, especially height.
2007-09-18 20:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont like too skinny or too fat. to tell ya the truth, since im a girl, im all about the job. if the guy will love me and if he has a substantial career and all is what i care about. who cares if hes flabby or a wimp?
2007-09-18 20:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by α ρℓα¢є ¢αℓℓє∂ мєℓαи¢нσℓу . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im fat and people say Im pretty. I think it is possible because I know lots of fat people who are pretty and married and happy.
2007-09-18 22:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by donielle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A person's size is not how I define the attractiveness of someone.
2007-09-18 20:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. There's this guy in my chemistry class, and let's just say he's a bit big. But he is the funniest guy I've met in my life. His personality is great and it makes him attractive.
2007-09-18 21:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋