How can i tell exactly who the father of my unborn baby is?

Question

My Boyfriend and I were broke up for a couple weeks, and i messed around with another guy, with no protection :(....too late now...im pregnant and my doctor told me i conceived on or around the 21st of june, i was with the other guy on the 22nd....i was only with my boyfriend around the 13th of june and then again around the 28th of june....is it still possible my boyfriend is the father? or do you think its the other guy? I have so long to wait for a DNA test....I wish i had a clue!

Answer 1

time can only tell but it looks like the other man is probably the father of the baby. If the dates are right then he is. You should let everyone know ASAP so nobody has any false expectations. Good luck and god bless sweetheart!

Answer 2

You wont be able to find out until the baby is born. The days you had sex with them both were close together, so there is really no way of telling right now. Ultrasound dates arent always 100% right, so you got to give or take a few days, especially if you dont know the exact day that you ovulated by taking an opk or something. DNA tests can be VERY expensive, thats why you see so many people going on the Maury show getting paternity tests done (no joke). So if you want a free paternity test once the baby is born, thats the only place i know where you can go, as long as you dont mind being humiliated on national television. Good luck with finding out who the baby's father is, and i hope you have a healthy baby.

Answer 3

It is possible to have a DNA test done before the baby is born using a sample of the amniotic fluid collected through a procedure called amniocentesis, where a needle is inserted through your abdomen into the uterus. This procedure does present some risk to the baby, and isn't recommended unless there's a good reason for it. The procedure and the DNA tests can also be costly. If you can make yourself wait, it would be best for the baby. Your doctor's estimate of the date of conception is based on either the first day of your last period and the length of your usual cycle, or a dating sonogram in which they measure the baby's size. It's not impossible to be off by a week or so, so you can cross your fingers and hope for the best, but I'd recommend preparing yourself for the possiblity that the doctor is right, too.

You have some bumps in the road ahead of you, but hang in there, and things will smooth out, whether or not in the manner that you hope for or expect! Best of luck to you and the little one.

Answer 4

It depends on how your doctor decided that you conceived on the 21st. If it was through ultrasound, it's likely that your BF is NOT the father. If he was just going by your last period date, there is a small chance the BF could be the father, if you ovulated earlier than the magical day 14. But, it's MOST likely that the other guy is the father.

Sorry, but I think it's very sad that you have to be asking this question. :(

p.s., Sperm can NOT live for three weeks. The outer limit is about 7 days. Most live 5 days in favorable conditions. If your cervical mucus isn't favorable, they can die within 24 hours. If you did in fact conceive when the doctor said, the other guy is the father.

Answer 5

If you concieved when the doc said, than it's the guy you messed around with. But doctors can be off either way by 2 wks. So it still could possible be your boyfriends. I'm sure you're wishing it was your boyfriends, but it's probably not. All you can do is wait until the baby is born & have a paternity test done.

Answer 6

What was the date of your last period? What is the due date from that?
What is the due date from ultrasound? Doctor thinks 14 March?
If last period was 7 June, then due date of 14 March and and probable conception date WOULD be 21 June. However, all dates are estimates: due dates etc. are all educated guesses, plus or minus two weeks.
The good news: theoretically, could be boyfriends'. Bad news - gotta wait and see.
PS: Ova [ egg] are estimated to live 2-3 days; sperm 3-5 days. NOT three weeks!

Answer 7

If your doctor is correct about your conception date then the 'other' guy is the daddy. Did you have an ultrasound? Once you have an ultrasound done been the technician then ask her and she can give you a date of conception based on your baby's development since not everyone has a normal 28-day cycle. But I would go with the fact that your boyfriend is not the father and the other guy is.

Answer 8

I'm sorry to say darlin' but it may be the other guy. And unfortunately you have to wait till the baby is born to get a paternity test done. I wish you the best of luck, and if you are lucky you have a good guy that will be with you all the way no matter what happens. Good luck hun

Answer 9

Definite that you could tell him that, however in the delivery room, they'll ask for the understanding. If you ever want support financially from the state, you're going to need to furnish his understanding. Yeah, I agree that the fellows is nugatory if he is willing to stroll out of your lifestyles. It's not illegal, however if you do meet any person that you want to marry later in existence and he wants to adopt your child, you're going to ought to have permission from the biological mum or dad. In that case, you might need to both inform the organic get together and most certainly see a fairly drawn out court case. Your substitute option is to file for sole custody when the little one is born and this may increasingly aid you in all legality causes later in you and your youngster's lifestyles. (it is valued at it, suppose me).

Answer 10

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