there is this guy who is very sweet to me all the time. and awlays says hello and goes out of his way to be nice. he also seems interested in things i own. he also makes eye contact and is just all around very nice. he works at this place i frequent. i always catch him staring at me. now, is it nice customer service? or, if he interested in me? he doesn't seem to do this with other people.
i can never figure people out and based off his gestures with me - what does this say?
2007-09-18 11:00:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
his body is always facing me.
2007-09-18 11:08:36 · update #1
he makes small talk with me - but, not like what you think it's more like "how do you like this weather." what do you think? tell me more.
2007-09-18 11:09:23 · update #2
jake - gimme more feedback.
2007-09-18 11:11:00 · update #3
ty is my boy.
2007-09-18 11:15:11 · update #4
thanks davie.
2007-09-18 11:18:55 · update #5
davie - he doesn't fold hi arms when he talks to me. he seems to in tune with me. as in things that i own. also, he always stares at me when i am notl ooking or distracted when i am in line at his job.
2007-09-18 11:27:32 · update #6
hes masculine though - it's tough to figure out.
2007-09-18 11:29:55 · update #7
davie - he stares at me and then when i see him doing it he turns away. tell me more. you are amazing.
2007-09-18 11:54:56 · update #8
p.c. do you still see this boy?
2007-09-18 11:55:15 · update #9
With some one working somewhere it is so hard to tell because it is 'safe' for them. I mean if they get shy or have second thoughts about actually going with you, then all that hitting on you can just be called 'customer service'. Liking you, well it's obvious he does; but enough? Since he is an employee and there are almost certainly store rules about employee/customer relations, you will probably have to ask him out. The sooner the better, actually. There is enough there now. Don't put it off, I say.
Oh, I'll chime in about body language, too. Arms folded means not buying. Look at his mouth when you speak. Keep a little distance. Don't ask if arms are folded. (like-wise, hands in pockets.) If the arms drop to the sides, or are open in making talkative gestures, glance in eyes and ask. It is also important to not look at him all the time, giving him time to look at you, get used to you and get over any imperfections he might see at first.
Staring ?? Gays don't stare for long,directly, when young.
A constant "wide open stare", when you are looking at each other is Usually a bi-sexual sign. (also combination of feminine and masculine Body features. Like, somewhat wider hips (female) strong body and legs (male) and feminine hands and arms is one Very common Bi-sexual combo) (masculine arms, slim body and slim face (like slim type woman) are another Bi-sexual combo)
A furtive stare at your face and then looking away is a homosexual's pattern (esp. young homosexual's pattern)
if he Really Likes the way you look.
In any event, from what you have added, you have to go for it!
ANY WAY the worst can happen is that you get a little embarrassed. Good practice. You can shake it off soon enough and have the learning experience. Or Maybe.....!
Round em up, cowboy!
2007-09-18 11:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably interested. Sounds very similar to something I experienced whenever I would go to a store that I frequented. This young guy that worked there behaved exactly the same way. At first I couldn't tell if he was flirting or just being really helpful. As time went on, he would get a big smile on his face every time I entered the store. I thought it was cute and I know he picked up on that because his flirting became very obvious. If I had been single at the time, I would've asked him out.
PS
I don't see him anymore because a new store closer to my house opened a while ago. But I've been thinking about stopping by his store next time I'm in the area, just to see if he's still there. If he is and still seems interested, I'm going to ask him out.
Oh and maybe your guy will be more forward, if you show him that you are equally interested in him. He'll probably be able to pick on it and maybe things could escalate from there.
2007-09-18 11:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by p c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i consider she most commonly likes the opposite man and is looking forward to whatever to occur with him. if it does not she'll come to you for certain. i consider she is simply liking the awareness from 2 boys although.. its rough i've the identical factor with a lady, she acts like she likes me plenty, she tells me she feels insecure approximately my ex and so on so she have got to be deliberating me within the bf/gf manner correct? good i am beginning to consider ladies are simply as unhealthy if now not worse than guys!
2016-09-05 18:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figuring out people's intentions from body language comes easier with more exposure to people. A lot of it has to deal with body language, if he is very open and confident with his body he probably has genuine interests. If his body is slouchy or not really focused on you, it is probably customer service.
2007-09-18 11:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's interested.
Think of how the typical straight guy treats you compared to him, and if there is a difference, it's certainly possible.
2007-09-18 11:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
the big thing that gives it away is body language. usually if someone likes you they will stand pretty close to you wen speaking to you and will find any escuse to touch you
2007-09-18 11:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sound positive to me, try and make convo
it isn't ty is it? lol x
2007-09-18 11:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by ♥SPARKLES♥™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would think so but theonly true positive way to know isask
2007-09-18 11:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by McLovin 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋