i'm talking about being told you're hot in a sexual way. an example would be, if you have kids, being called a MILF.
does that stuff always bother you or does it matter who it's coming from?
would you be as bothered by it if...
1. it was a really good looking guy?
2. a young boy between 16-21?
TELL ME YOUR AGE WITH YOUR ANSWER PLEASE.
2007-09-18 10:59:30 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
THIS QUESTION IS FOR WOMEN.
2007-09-18 11:05:28 · update #1
funny, what i usually gather from women is that they don't like sexual compliments. is it just different here because i brought up good looking guys and young boys?
2007-09-18 12:09:12 · update #2
I'm 17.
I would be very disturbed if anyone other than someone I had dated for a while told me this, truth be told. I don't like being called hot, not unless it fits the moment, shall we say...my ex called me hot, but he also called me beautiful, which is what I would prefer.
2007-09-18 11:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all, I'm 27, and no, it doesn't bother me. In fact, it would bother me more if nobody ever gave me a compliment, sexual or otherwise. It seems like I mind compliments like this less as I get older, actually. When I was like 19 I'd get all bent out of shape if I got whistled at on the street or whatever, but these days it's a confidence boost, like, "Yeah, I still got it," LOL. The only time it bothers me is when a guy takes it too far. I mean, nothing wrong with a random whistle or a "Hey, baby!" but when guys start to get a little graphic with their compliments, or when they try to accompany their comments with grabbing at me, that is when I get offended. I remember once I was working as a shot girl for Captain Morgan, and I was in a bar dressed as a sexy pirate wench, so I was expecting the cat calls and whatnot, but one guy tried to actually smack me on the @$$ when I walked by and he ended up missing and hitting the small of my back instead, which HURT!!!! That was the only time I can remember actually wanting to cry over something like that...
2007-09-18 18:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love receiving sexual compliments. Only an idiot would be against receiving compliments that are done in at least half decent taste.
I'm 25 and I probably would be a bit concerned if a boy of any age was sexually complimenting me. But I suppose it's better than nothing.
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You should have specified in the first place. So, I'm leaving my answer here. I've seen many of your older woman fetish questions around here and figured as much.
Perhaps you should just go and ask some of them in person. Some would love to have a boytoy. And, if you're mature enough then you may even find one that lasts a life time. Go for it!
2007-09-18 18:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Unless the guy is being gross, I would likely feel a little flattered (who doesn't like to be told they are attractive???)
If it was a young man under the age of 21, I wouldn't take it all that seriously, but I would find it highly inappropriate and discourage that sort of attention.
I actually did have a 16-17 year old hit on me the other day. It was very very very weird, and did not make me feel flattered at all. I was flabbergasted that he would approach me like that (and worse, my age didn't deter him!!!). That takes guts...gotta hand it to him on that score, lol.
PS. I am 37
2007-09-18 18:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by gefyonx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sixteen, and I'd tell a guy to get his head out of the gutter and get a life because I'm not interested if he used a sexual complement. It wouldn't matter if he was good looking or 16-21.
If I was strong enough I'd probably slap him too.
2007-09-18 18:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by Aurum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 32 and I guess it would depend on who the compliment was coming from. If it was someone around my own age that I was interested it, then yes I would like the compliment. If it was from a sleazy old man or a young boy, I wouldn't like it so much.
2007-09-18 18:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by Chriss32 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm 25 and there is nothing wrong with getting sexual compliments...as long as they're done tastefully. If I get a really crude one from a really creepy guy, of course I'm not going to appreciate it. But I usually accept them better from a good looking guy, young or old.
2007-09-18 18:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley S 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't mind the sexual compliments as long as they're not coming from some creepy pervert. It would seem that they'd have intentions of not just having sex with me, but hurting me, too.
Either #1 or #2 could give me a compliment like that, and I'd be okay with it.
And I'm in my late 40's.
2007-09-18 18:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbow 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Okie Dokie, I am 27 with NO kids and I say it totally depends. If I am in front of my parents or other older people, I would mind. If I am with my boyfriend, he'd probably try to beat you up(it's happened before). If I am by myself or out with my girls, I'd be pretty flattered.
2007-09-18 18:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I love being called a MILF... but if its a young boy i just act like they are crazy. If a grown man called me that I would smile and walk away... I'm Married!
2007-09-18 18:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by funnybird34 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋