i'm just curious as to what it is about married men that makes them so interesting or attractive to you...
you know ..considering that..they're taken and all..
2007-09-18 09:21:27 · 19 answers · asked by juanes addicion 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A HINT...
if you are NOT interested in married men...then say hi and get your 2 pts...
i am asking women who are specifically interested in married men...
2007-09-18 09:38:00 · update #1
It wasn't a fascination for me or a situation I thought I would ever be in, yes it was wrong- we had always been friends and I was absolutely never attracted to him or even thought about him in that way- He did end up pursuing me and I should of shot him down, but 5 years later and I am truly in love and he wants to leave and be with me, but of course as the story always goes- he's not leaving because of the child. My heart is broken but my eyes are wide open to how wrong this all was and I was for letting my heart control my actions.
2007-09-18 13:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by italy9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always just been interested in MEN period. Not so much because they were married. However there were times when I knew they were married and didn't cheat and that just made it all the more challenging. Lots of times, women just want sex also. If she picks a married guy, she knows there will be no strings attached and she won't have to worry about getting into a relationship.
2007-09-18 16:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm not one of "those" women, but I can tell you that sometimes it happens because you're already feeling vulnerable, and someone comes along showing you attention you're not getting. Not necessarily just married men. However, I did know a girl that made it her "challenge in life" to see if she could hook a man and make him break his marital vows. She wanted nothing more than to see if she had the power. For still other people, it's the idea that they know the man is already married, and there will be no strings attached. They can get what they want from him without having to worry about him wanting any more from you than sex.
2007-09-18 16:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
some women simply do not have people within their age groups to date any more so they resort to married men, some women are just naughty, some have a complex and are just trying to prove that they are better than the significant other, some are sought after by the married men for good time deals and fall in the trap, some are married women who want to have a safe extra marital relationship..........the list is as endless as there are such affairs........and as endless as marriage itself.......is there some gal after you? May be its not for the sex but good friendship stay a while and see what she really wants
2007-09-18 16:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by lavagal.com 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm not one of those women. Could care less about a married or single man for that matter. Mine and my husband's job moves us from place to place, and it seems there is at least one skank at every job that preys on married men. I've noticed that most of the men, my husband included, can spot these women a mile a way and know that they are trouble. Most of the men avoide them, and all of the women hate them. Then you have one or two men that have no standards what so ever, and fool around with these women. The last job we were on the resident, married man chasing skank wouldn't leave my man alone even though he told her more than once to leave him alone. I stepped in and told her what I would do if she didn't leave him alone, and she finally left him alone.
2007-09-18 16:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by RW 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
For me there is no attraction, but I have seen women that can't stand knowing there's a man out there they can't have. I think it's the challenge of knowing that they are 'sexy' enough to take away another women's man. Also there is the element of doing something 'evil' that makes a transgression of the flesh so enticing and luscious. Of course, after the fall,they wake up and find out they're still in the 'real world' and then hell to pay in dealing with the wife, etc.
2007-09-18 16:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by CMA Mom 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am not interested in married men so I do not have an answer for you. I have many opinions but do not want to get reported so I'll just keep this short and sweet.
2007-09-18 16:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
i don't think it started off where i am attracted to just married men but i found myself in love with a married man. i fell in love with the person that he is.
i don't recommend this because it is very hard and hurtful all the way around.
2007-09-18 16:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I don't go for married men, but it's a real turn on for me if I happen to get a guy that is "taken", especially the guys that are much younger than me. Even if it's just for one night.
2007-09-18 16:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Beth S 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
They may be taken, but are still fun to play with. What's the fascination in borrowing your best friend's convertible? You may find it's fun to drive, but perhaps not very practical for your lifestyle. Of course, if you borrow the car and expect your friend to give it to you, then you're just stupid - if you want one for good, you have to buy your own.
2007-09-18 16:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋