ok this is the deal im trying to get pregnant ive had sex regularly for the past 3 months and nothing HELP?

Question

my fiance decided that we want kids and we have been trying to get pregnant. he always ejaculates inside of me every time we have sex so what are we doing wrong or what am i doing wrong? is there some kind of pill i can get on or something that i can do so that we can get pregnant please help

Answer 1

I don't know how old you are, but things start to slow down in your 30's. You are worrying way too much. You may have a problem if you have been trying for a year, but you have only tried for 3 months. It took us 5 months to get pregnant. Relax and enjoy.

Answer 2

3 months is nothing. Thats a grand total of about 72 hours that you had an egg available for sperm. 72 HOURS. On average it takes a healthy young couple a year.

For heavens sake stop TRYING to get pregnant and just have sex, if you start freaking out 3 months into it you'll never get pregnant. Thats the kind of stress that keeps you from conceiving.

Have sex, dont think about babies, go about life as usual. You'll be pregnant before you know it.

Been there done that, the best advice I got was to stop trying. It works better than anything.

Answer 3

It took me almost 2 years to get pregnant. If you are feeling concerned that it might not happen, you can go talk to your Gyno. They might find a reason why you aren't having conception that easy. But 3 months is not really that long considering the window you have to concieve. Good luck and keep trying if this is what you really want :)

Answer 4

1 - relax.

2 - give it some time. the AVERAGE time it takes to get pregnant is between 5 and 10 months, depending on your age.

3 - if a full year goes by, and you haven't had any luck, THEN talk to your doctor about it.

4 - in the meantime, enjoy trying!

Answer 5

I think you are doing it all wrong. Get married then have your kids. What is this that he has decided that you have kids. Maybe you are not in total agreement is why you aren't getting preg. Maybe he is the one with the problem and not you? Ever think of that? He could have low sperm count. Sometimes things are not meant to happen as you may think. When the time is right for you to have a child you will.

Answer 6

You leave a lot of things unanswered, like whether or not you were on birth control before. But, it's not uncommon for it to take up to a year for a normal, healthy couple to conceive. Keep trying and try not to get too stressed about it, that can also hinder conception!

Answer 7

don't have sex every day, try every 2-3 days. It takes up to 3 days for the sperm to make it to it's full count (one million I think?) So if you are doing it every day less sperm is making its way to the egg, wait up to 3 days and you have 3x a chance to get pregnant. Also make sure you have sex on day or near ovulation day.

Answer 8

Wait , you just told someone you were prego in a post? If your actually telling the truth at this point. Try an ovulation test, follow the directions. Just my opinion, liars give me heartburn.

Answer 9

the best way to get pregnant is to count 12 days after your first day of your period and that day is the post fertile day of the month my mother couldnot get pregnant and her doctor told her that and the next month she was already pregnant. try that and if nothing happens go to your doctor.

Answer 10

hi you just left me an answer to my question and said that you were pregnant, are you or not? I am confused. If you are like you said in my question, how long after your last shot was due did you find out you were pregnant?