For men, is it good that my husband likes to .........???

Question

Lately, more often every time my husband walks by me he is either slapping my butt, squeezing my boobs, kissing my neck, or whatever it may be. We have two children together so I am in no way a skinny model, but I am not fat either.

Is this normal? Should I feel good that he is doing this a lot, as in, he likes my body, or that he is just horny? What goes through your minds when you do this to your women?

Don't get me wrong, it feels great, I am just wondering if that is all he wants.

I am not complaining, just a curious wife!

Answer 1

You should just plain enjoy it and make some sounds (like some sighs, or hmmm.) so he knows you like & want him to touch you... Just keep it going as long as you can.. Life is way toooo short to miss any showing of affection, romance, and , yes, even lust!

Answer 2

Take it as a compliment. I know plenty of women who wish their husband would just notice they are wearing a new bra. My b/f cannot keep his hands off of me but I know he is digging me and who cares if he is horny. You obviously look great in his eyes. I would show him the appreciation and start kissing his neck, smacking his but and grabbing his croctch... he just might enjoy it more than you will doing it.

I am almost always all over my guy and not for a second does he ever think I am not into him/.

Answer 3

I have been married almost 28 years. My husband does the same things. I am glad he still finds me grabbable after all these years. Yes, he is a horny devil and always has been. Don't read anything negative into his actions. Its a good thing. Also you might try a little grabbing and squeezing too, might be fun!!

Answer 4

I would say it is a little mixture of both.
On one hand he wants you to know that he thinks you are sexy and he doesnt want you to think you are fat or ugly.
On the other hand if you two are a normal couple and just had two children then he might be saying "hey lets do something that we havent done in a while"
I wouldnt say that he is "horny" (because I hate that word). but more that he would like to et back to the intimate side of the bed a little more.

Answer 5

Its a good thing. Would you feel any better about it if he never did that?

At home, anything goes but frowned upon in public unless it is in France.

Respond to him in a way that lets him know, you like it too.

Flirting in marriage is a good thing between husband and wife.

Answer 6

I have a husband that does the same thing as your's! When I asked him, he says he does it because he finds me attractive and he loves me. I've also had 2 kids, so I'm definitely not as cute as I used to be... but it's great to know that he still finds me physically attractive and that he is willing to show it in a physical way.

You're one lucky lady!

Answer 7

Question: What goes through my mind when I slap butt, squeeze boobs, kiss neck, or whatever?

Answer: Ooooo!!!!! This is fun!!!!!

Answer 8

You should feel extremely pleased that he feels that way about you still. After 2 kids and he still likes your body enough to want to touch it, feel it, and caress it. It shows that he is still very much in love with you and wants you every minute of every day. If I were you I would worry if he acted the opposite way.

Answer 9

Enjoy it! He's obviously in love with his lady. That's how many men say, I Love You....through actions, not the words. When he does those things..give him a little extra feel or rub up against him sometimes...he'll appreciate it..i know I would.

Answer 10

I do the same to my wife and she loves it. She says it makes her feel sexy and its a turn on and I am all for that. I do find my wife very beautiful and sexy and this is my way of telling her. Also that I want her and how much she turns me on..... so I would say enjoy it...