I have been dating this great 41 year old woman for about 5 months now. She has a very nice and pretty 17 year old daughter. For about the last few weeks I have been receiving cell phone text messages that are very provocative and to-the-point sexual innuendos. She tells me that she wants to be with me and then tells me what she would do with me; I actually blush when I read these messages. I have no ideal what to do. Should I tell her mother or should I confront the daughter? Please help.
2007-09-18 08:52:48 · 18 answers · asked by balls2herchin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait..your YA name is 'balls2herchin' and you blush ???
Is school out already ?
2007-09-18 08:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok i got to ask why do you not know what to do ?????
and why do you keep stringing the 17 year old along by
reading her messages? that is what you are doing!!!
and r u texting her back??? you might not be honest with us
but something tells me you are
you find it an ego boost to say the least!!!
If you cared about her mom you would have told her immediately confronted the mom and the daughter and because you did not do that and are asking us what you should do i think you want the 17 year old and you just want us
to justify your way of thinking
'a couple of weeks' should have NEVER been more then the first message!!!!!
do what u want or should i say who you want
2007-09-18 09:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by summerbliss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show the messages to your girlfriend. The messages are inappropriate and it's up to the mother to discuss this with her daughter.
If you confront the daughter, she may twists the facts and tell her mother and make you look like the pervert.
2007-09-18 09:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I would share the texts with her mother. If you confront the girl yourself, she will get upset and will do whatever she can to sabatoge your relationship with her mother. If you simply tell the mother, she won't believe you and will think you're trying to have a relationship with her daughter. You're going to have to show her the actual messages. Man, I wouldn't want to be in your shoes!
2007-09-18 08:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by meagain 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Confront your girlfriend..let her know what is going on so you as the adults( how old are you anyway?) can figure out the right way to handle this. This could come between the mother and daughter..and if you are any kind of decent human being you will let your girlfriend know so that doesn't happen...these kinds of situations are getting out of hand...morals people it's not that hard and it doesn't hurt .
2007-09-18 09:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by sweetness 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would do both...get them together and confront the daughter. Be sure to save the messages so that you can prove to the mother what the daughter is doing.
2007-09-18 09:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely limit any and all contact with the daughter. Only speak to the mother, but come to her armed with the evidence.
You may want to get away from this whole situation before things get out of hand. Sounds kinda kookie to me.
2007-09-18 09:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by pink 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell the mother because the daughter could get upset with you and try telling her mother that you were coming on to her. This could get bad.
2007-09-18 09:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy of 2 sweet babies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not know how old you are, and from the sounds of it, you said that you are dating this "great" 41 year old woman, and to me it sounds like you are more "turned on" from her daughter.
That makes me want to say "perv"!!!!!
End the relationship now, what you are feeling with her daughter is WRONG PAL!!!!!
Yeh, tell the mother that you are having feelings for her daughter and watch what the mom says!!! Or does!!!! It is so wrong for you to start having feelings for her, and she is just a little tramp with no respect for her mother!!!!!!!
2007-09-18 09:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell the mother
2007-09-18 09:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell the mother *right now*.
That kind of behavior could get you into very serious legal trouble, especially if she claims that you acted on those text messages.
2007-09-18 09:00:11 · answer #11 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋