i have a friend and she has been a mother to me.now her friend is telling her kids that i hate them.?

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she has been a mother to me and her kids as my own siblings also.when her friend came to see me..she has started saying words against me and everything turned inside out.there has been a time that they have kept my things. mum doesnt want me to leave.i did something so she'll be angry at me and tell me to go.even if its against my will and my heart.i have recorded our conversation with one of her daughters.she got angry.but the next day when she saw me.she just hugged me so tight.and i told her the truth that i did that so she will hate me.so it will not be also hard for me to leave mum.now her kids are angry. i have never said anything against them cause i treated them as my own family.just i cant think that when people are jealous and saw a good relationship like we were like a family someone's always trying to ruin it.for their sake.why people has to be so harsh.this lady has told that mum and her kids hated me.but mum said its not true.what should i believe?

Answer 1

Frist important thing, the next time this comes up, is that when people try to ruin a good relaitonship, they fail. You can't its an oxymoron, its a test of a relaitonship weather it can be ruined, so.... immaturely, so remember that, find peace in it, its a way of "knowing" and its a health way of seeing it.

That aside hunnie common down you should always understand the motivations of your family, know them. If they got mad, it most be justifed in there eyes. Only way to fix it, is to help them see the truth. This "friend" can only keep the web going for so long when people communicate honestly in the back ground. Understand that, always talk, always communicate, helps keep misunderstanding at a minuim. Also in relatinships its true, the only dumb questions, are the ones you don't ask. So never fear asking. I say this becuse with the right reactions, it would seem this would of all be averted.

That as so aside, like I said in the beganing, she can't destroy a good relationship, really its hard for even "US" to destory a good one. Also find peace in that, talk to the ones you care, be honest, be smart to, don't "wierd" people out, but be honest with that heart....