Can anyone tell me what women do to attract men other than look pretty?

Question

Seriously.. what exactly do women do to attract a man they like besides look good? How do they win him over and get him interested in them?

I really want women to tell me what else they do besides looking pretty. If the answer is 'nothing' please be honest and say 'nothing'.

Answer 1

I have always found that what attracts a man is to make him feel like being with him is the best place for me to be in the world because he’s funny, interesting, smart, etc. If I can make a man feel like he’s the only person in the room no matter how crowded it is, then I have done well.

It also helps to make him feel like I am worth being with, and that he will come away from our time together fulfilled in some way, be it physically, intellectually, humorously, etc.

Answer 2

For the most part that's all they do. I mean in a situation where neither of them have spoken to each other.

If they're already friends or something, they MIGHT do something else. The good ones do. The rest (majority) just sit and look pretty and hope against all hope that a they catch the eye of a good man. Usually (not always) it's just the losers that go hit on them, though.

Just to clarify why it's the losers that do most of the "hitting on girls" you only need to look at the how the system works for a moment.

How many women does a good man have to approach? Just a few. He's a great guy and most women can probably tell if he's got enough confidence to be open about himself.

How many women does a loser have to approach? Quite a lot. For a couple reasons.
1) He has to find a women who can't see through is BS or doesn't care.
2) Even if he gets one girl, he's not going to stop there.

Just a numbers game for these guys.

Answer 3

This is a question that has been there since the beginning of time. Women like any female of any animal species, looks for certain qualities in a potential mate. While female animals look for the biggest and strongest males or the best hunters, this is all done to make sure that their offspring have the best chance to survive. Todays modern woman isn't that far removed from the basic instincts that all females share. While female animals go into heat to attract males, todays women can attract males, by scent (perfume) by movement (tossing the hair) the licking of the lips, crossing the legs etc. Women also are much more in tune with body language. If a woman wants to attract a man then all she has to do is sit and wait and play with her hair or adjust her clothing or anything like that and some man will come up to her. Like most females of any species, ladies don't really have to do a whole lot to attract males. It's normaly the male that acts all stupid to try and catch the womens attention

Answer 4

It's her personality that attracts a man more than her looks. If a woman is warm and friendly, she's going to be more successful in attracting a man than if she's pretty and has a cold personality. Pretty women might be noticed more but if they are not friendly, just being looked at is all they're going to get.

Answer 5

I would say smile, tell jokes, laugh at jokes, be bold, goof around, participate in intellectual conversations and topics, be interested in getting to know the guy.

I find that guys usually want the same things women do as far as a mental connection and to feel the same interests. It's a great thing when you find someone that you feel you can relate to mentally, emotionally and physically.

Answer 6

That is what most women do, yes! Because, after all, "we so live in a material world" and that is as far as some women get... however there are those women, mostly mature enough to know who they are that attract a man by LISTENING, LOOKING AS GOOD AS THEY FEEL(because this means they respect themselves), and MAKING A MAN FEEL LIKE HE'S A MAN.

Maybe you are attracting the wrong women, eh?

Answer 7

Well, I would act like a responsible adult, have some interesting opinions, ask questions about their interests, discuss movies, science, politics, plus generally engage in witty, ribald repartee with everyone in our circle so that they don't feel like they're getting the hard sell. Humor would play a large role, because I wouldn't want to attract anyone for whom sense of humor isn't key.

Answer 8

-find you irresistible
-are interested in you, and you alone
-care about your feelings
-want to spend time with you
-think you are great just the way you are
-laugh at you jokes
-have common interests

The above, if sincere, are ways that women might be able to get him interested in her. I think there's more to attraction than just "looking pretty." When men (or women!) feel valued and wanted, sometimes that in itself is enough to cause a person to feel attracted to another.

Answer 9

has a woman ever made you feel the centre of attention, made you feel like the most important person in the universe, remembered everything you ever told her, laughed at your jokes, love it when you spend time with your mates (it means we get our time too), love you more that you want to spend time us, made you feel like you actually mattered in this dull existence, provoked the desire in you to be a better man?

thats how we do it - it comes natural, because if you are important will go the extra mile and its comes natural. (Hint, hint, lol)

Answer 10

Your personality has a lot to do with it... you have to be confident and happy.....just overall a nice person... looks have something to do with it, but from what Ive heard not a whole lot..... depends on the man.....just smile and go with it....let it be natural...