What would you do if they lied to you?
2007-09-18 07:52:02 · 28 answers · asked by Francesca 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would lose respect for her. My philosophy is, if you always tell the truth, you never have to change your story. I can put up with a lot, but being lied to is the limit. My ex wife lied so much and even slept with my friend , after she said there was nothing going on. Being lied to is an awful thing to forgive someone for, but I forgave her, because I was getting so bitter, it was eating me up. I forgave her and walked out of her life forever. My daughters tell me she is the unhappiest person they know. I wonder why ? Conscience ?
2007-09-18 12:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by The Count 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the size of the lie. If it was about the dress I just bought (I'm a guy, but I'm just role-playing), I wouldn't mind too much. He wouldn't be getting any for a night though.
If it was about sleeping with my sister, then I'd have a problem and chase him with a kitchen knife.
Boy that was fun, I must remember to change gender more often.
2007-09-18 14:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what they were lying about and how big the lie was. I would listen to what they had to say about the situation and try to do what my gut tells me. If it's a big issue or if I think they are lying again--they are gone! If it's something little, I would forgive but not forget and if they lie again then they would get the boot.
2007-09-18 15:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have been better if you merged your main question with your detail (i.e., "What would you do if someone you loved lied to you?"), but the answer depends on the lie. But, then, again, I might be lying! ;)
2007-09-18 15:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by skaizun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what they lied about.
2007-09-18 14:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kamunyak 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um..u see my boyfriend has never been a liar. we are completely and utterly honest about everything..I found out he lied to me about something and i was pissed the @##$ off.. because i wouldn't expect that from him and vice versa i lied to him about something and he found out..he was so upset..it's like we're grown adults why lie? u know..
2007-09-18 14:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by Fabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what they were lying about, a white lie or a really bad one. If it was something hurtful I would walk out. They could not have cared the same about me if they hurt me with a lie.
2007-09-18 14:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by angelsmooth23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would depend on the lie - but trust if pinacle - so pretty much one major lie - and I drop 'em these days...no second chances anymore...once a liar ALWAYS a liar.
2007-09-18 14:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave ......
Lying once is hard to forgive twice is unforgivable....
my ex used to tell "little white lies".. which then turned in to big fat hairy ones once she got found out....
2007-09-18 14:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has happened. I yelled at the person. And warned him/her I will not tolerate certain things. I imagine you mean a big lie. Not nonsense.
2007-09-18 14:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋