can men never be faithful ?only men answer?

Question

is it true that men can never be faithful , i want men to answer , i mean really faithful as in not even thinking or fantasizing about other women

Answer 1

No, that's not true. Men can be faithful, I was faithful for three and half years to my girl, my dad's been faithful to my mom for 31 years.

Answer 2

Tough question. I have to say that I believe that anything is possible. If that is what you are looking for, then truly believe that someone out there truly can be faithful.

If faithful means never thinking or fantasizing about other women, I don't know. I have been married to my wife for 17 years and I would be lying if I said that I have never fantasized about other women. I have been PHYSICALLY faithful to my wife, but not mentally or spiritually.

The mental or spiritual piece is extremely difficult since most men are very visually oriented. In other words, they like what they see. Men are bombarded with images of women that are "made up" and they feel attracted to them in physical ways.

Once again, I am hopeful that there are many, many men out there who can be truly faithful. If you can find it within yourself to believe that someone WILL meet that level of expectation, there is no reason that you will not find that.

Believe and your dreams will come true. If you are skeptical, you will find what you did not believe in. Good luck

Answer 3

Your definition of "faithful" is faulty, and it is not man-specific. Women think and fantasize about other men, too. It is natural. It is impossible not to do. You view something you like, and it is a stimulus in your brain that you cannot control. Try to look at a beautiful mountain or breath-taking skyline or vast and blue ocean and try not to think about it. You can't. Even if you can consciously do it, your subconscious will record the event and it will effect your thoughts and being. You are creating an impossible ideal of people, and it is inaccurate and unfair. If that is your definition of "faithful," prepare to live a life of unfaithfulness. You're significant other will be guilty of it. You will, too.

If you define faithfulness in a healthy, realistic way, however, then yes. Men CAN be faithful. I, for one, would NEVER cheat on my wife and see another woman, commit adultery, or even hang around a woman without my wife's knowledge. Men (and some women, too) pray on the insecurity of people with unrealistic views of faithfulness and commit adultery, but it is a choice, not a biological necessity. Many couples live long, happy lives with NO infidelity whatsoever, and it is because they are comfortable with themselves, have realistic expectations, and are committed and willing to put in the effort.

Answer 4

How can you not think or fantasize about other women? I guess you can turn off the TV and live in the middle east or be gay. I have never cheated on any of my girlfriends but I do think about other women and I tell them so. I understand that women will fantzsize too, if they like me enough they will be faithfull too.

Answer 5

Thinking about other women gets you a slap, being unfaithful gets you a divorce. There is a big difference between thinking about other women and doing something about it. If you are looking for a man who will never think about another woman you will have a lonely life. If you are looking for one who will not cheat on you, they are all around.

Answer 6

If your standard of faithfullness is to never think about another woman, I would say that no one, male or female is capable of that sort of faithfullness.

The true test of a persons fidelity is less in what they think and more in what they do.

Yes, in that respect a man can be truly faithfull.