why do women complain about things they have total control over?

Question

i've seen chicks in this site complain about women and porn like some guy with a huge white beard sittin behind a desk pressed a button that gave her no choice but to get naked on tv or show off her body or become a stripper

nobody put a gun to they're head these are grown *** women who CHOOSE to put themselves out they're so quit blaming stupid men for eventhing

Answer 1

Well, at least you admit you're stupid. Bravo!

Answer 2

It's just an expression of how they feel at the moment. Women do tend to go over-react on some things, but they do know the answers for themselves. They just want to know the idea of the person sitting next to them.

Answer 3

The way men and women communicate is very different.

Women often talk about things that are troubling to them. Men often see this as complaining because men do not talk as much about anything.

This makes for some great mis-understandings between men and women.

Peace.

P.S. There are many times men take a statement of fact as a complaint. This is so often not the case.

Answer 4

I have no problem with porn, it can be fun at times. But like, the drink and the smoke, always in moderation.

Answer 5

I don't even understand your question.

Are you talking about women who complain that men spend too much time involved with porn?

Or women who complain that other women are in the porn industry?

Or women who think that porn is illegal, immoral, or a waste of money?

Or what?

I think most women who have an issue with porn are unhappy that their husbands or boyfriends are addicted to internet porn and can't function in normal relationships.

Answer 6

Same reason why men complain about things they have total control over.

This is a human tendency, not a gender related one. We ALL do this to some extent.

Why do you complain about your job? No one is forcing you to work there!

Answer 7

I've asked this question too. You wont get too many responses. Why? Because you are right and the women can't really argue with you. Instead of agreeing with you, they will just ignore the question.

Answer 8

You cant argue with a woman by using logic, let alone a feminist. That said I dont think there is anyway to argue with a feminist. But keep putting your logic out there for the women contimplating becoming a feminist may see it for what it is before being indoctrinated and controlled.

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Long but bravo.

Answer 9

It's women nature to always, whine and complain

Answer 10

You've opened up a can of worms here. A better example concerns the fashion industry. Feminism has worked to enable women to have increased freedom and power, and one area where this is manifest is in fashion, an industry that has virtually no heterosexual males in positions of corporate power or consumer-power to determins the market. Women drive the trends of fashion by their spending habits. Women comprise the target-group of fashion advertising, and determine its content by responding to it in focus groups and in economic activity. Women in the workplace have ushered in the notion of "I need this wardrobe for my career". In more patriarchal times, clothes were more democratic, and far less a component of competitiveness, and in segments of society where men's clothes mattered more, the males were considered foppish or effeminate. The rise of the fashion industry is an almost totally female phenomenon.
___Women clearly and indisputably determine the fashion industry, in and out, top to bottom, but along comes Naomi Wolf, who blames anorexia on "society", which she implicitly casts as patriarchal (bolstered by the hordes of others who claim it explicitly), thereby relieving women of any responsibility for their collective and individual behaviors in this area, and underpinning a fantasy-discourse in which feminists have another thing to blame on men.
___The "ideal" of ultra-thin beauty does not agree with the preferences of most men. It is an "ideal" of, by, and for women. And it doesn't even resemble the kinds of "ideals" that men construct. Men have their preferences as regards women's looks, but these aren't treated as ideals by men, only intuitive sexual responses. Ask men what kinds of ideals they have, without prejudicing the question by sticking in "of female beauty", and you'll get a lot of moral and spiritual answers. Physicalist "ideals" are consistent with the immediate-experience priorities of feminism--materialist, sensualist, and emotivist priorities of money, sexual freedom, and self-esteem and freedom from stigma or criticism.
___The moral logic of personal responsibility for one's actions is a patriarchal legacy, and feminism is hostile to it. Its critiques of logic enable it to engage in Wolfisms like the above, and its critique of hierarchical thinking undermines the very foundations of values. (This anti-values critique is especially apparent in feminist literary theory.)
___Apparently feminism means never having to say you're sorry. No patriarchal obligations of repentence or even of human moral error, unless you're male--but then, male errors are sub-human moral errors, so feminism can continue to define humanity in feminine terms, and define for themselves a world free of the hard edges of consequence.
___Complaining about matters that are (increasingly) under women's control is a central means by which feminism distorts the human affairs discourse in order to wring more power and control out of it, while avoiding any responsibility for the downsides of the real social world it creates. By keeping its manipulations of society under the radar, by exerting psychological power in feminized parenting and education, and through the emotional and sexual manipulation of men (while banning such considerations from the calculus of equality), by controlling and distorting the gender discourse, and by creating a fantasy world in which only men are responsible for evil, feminism brings about its utopia in which women are above criticism and any assaults to their self-esteem, freedoms, and power. Oppressive societies increasingly need scapegoats to escape personal responsibility, and feminism finds them in men.
___Unfortunately, utopias bring about their own demises, and the Western liberal tradition that feminism criticizes as not liberal enough, is withering away demographically, largely as a result of feminism's effects on the birth rate, and in another few generations, will be overrun by the less-feminism friendly traditions of Central America here, and of Islam in Europe, and feminism will become extinct.
___There are consequences to human behavior, whether feminism wants to acknowledge them or not.