what should i do tell her or keep it from her and how can i go out with him
2007-09-18 02:56:25 · 29 answers · asked by Just another teenage girl♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Baby Names
tell her and if she doesnt like it show her how seriouse you are but also how caring he is by maybe suggesting that he comes to tea one day just so she can get to know him
hope this helps!!
best of luck!!
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2007-09-18 03:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by x <3 Laurz <3 x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are in the wrong category, lol. To answer your question, YOUR MOTHER KNOWS BEST. How old are you? Under 15? My daughter turned 17 yesterday, but when she was 14 she had a boyfriend and her grandmother found a note from her boyfriend talking about SEX. I couldn't look at her for a week until I finally had to talk to her and take her to get on the pill. She said she only did it once, but if you don't want a baby or STD's.... stay away from the boy"friends" and keep them all just "friends". There is no reason to have a "boyfriend" unless you plan on marrying the guy... and at this age you should be thinking about having fun and doing things in GROUPS. You will have lots of boyfriends (when you are old enough) before you finally find one to settle down with. Be smart and have fun!
2007-09-18 03:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems a relatively normal desire unless of course he is fifty years older than you or has two heads. Share your thoughts and feelings with Mum. She was young once and her experience of boyfriends might not have been all that good. On the surface, she is probably only wanting to protect you from the predators out there who are mainly trying to take every opportunity they have to get their legs over. Older folks know this. On the other hand, you might be too young to start with all the trauma, upset and mess that having a boyfriend does for you. Talk it all through with Mum and if she is definitely not sympathetic, another older sensible family member. Don't lie to her or deceive her. This is not the way to live. Best of luck, An old Dad.
2007-09-18 03:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by John G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you are. You are asking this in baby names. I'm assuming you are an adolescent. If you mom doesn't allow you to date, then you should obey her rules. Does she not allow you to date at all, or just this particular boy? If you are over 18 then you can go out with whoever you please, but until then you have to live by your parents rules. Nothing good will come of you sneaking around behind her back. You will lose her trust and that will make it harder for her when she does decide that you are old enough for a boy friend.
2007-09-18 03:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by kat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel!!! You like this guy but your mom doesnt. So heres what you do, you can date secretly and get in trouble. Or move on or get the ok from your mom. Try to talk it with your mom ask why you cannot date this boy. Maybe you can be friend still. Hope you can deal it out =].
Much luck <3
2007-09-18 03:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by $$$ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, how old are you? If you're under 16, I'd say listen to your mom. Concentrate on your schoolwork and don't run around behind her back trying to hang out with boys, because you know what? She's going to find out. Mom's always do.
Over 16, I think it's ok for you to date a little bit, but don't base your entire social schedule around a boy. Go on group dates with a few girlfriends and your boyfriend and a few other guys. Just talk to her, have her meet the boy, maybe invite him over for dinner one night so she knows who you're seeing and she can feel comfortable letting your go out with him.
2007-09-18 03:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by Meg 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why haven't you told us your age?. it could make all the difference. if you are under 16,then i imagine she needs time to get used to you growing up.you need to show her that you are sensible and mature.if she still insist no,then thats a shame,but it is her rules. if you are 16-18 then i guess she is still not being fair,but again all you can do is show her what a mature person you are,and she may come round?. its hard for parents to let go of their kids. i suggest that if you really like this guy and he is a decent person( no bad background) then why not ask your mom if you can invite him round to meet her,and have coffee together?. that way she can see for herself,and maybe allow you to spend some time together.you could suggest that she is in the room when he comes round.hopefully as time goes by,she will come relent?!. good luck!.
2007-09-18 03:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by scorpio_queen_2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first how old are you?? if you are young, then i agree with her...but if you are 14-15...you should be allowed a movie or dinner night or something or have each other over at each others houses...WITH RULES. no going into the bedroom things like that. ask her if you could work this out and help her make up the rules...if she sees you are responisible enough to make rules for yourself that she completely agrees with, you may get your chance. if you are older then that...you should be allowed to see him and have a b/f
ask her if she had a b/f or wanted a b/f at your age. but she also sounds like a great mom to have strict rules. its out of love and your well being. lots of bad things can happen
2007-09-18 03:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Your mom has the last word. If she tells you not to have a boyfriend, then you can't have a boyfriend. She is concerned about your safety. There are so many bad things that can happen. Trust your mom. She knows best.
2007-09-18 03:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you mother doesn't want you to have a boyfriend you must be a young teenager. Therefore, they only way you might be able to see him is with a bunch of friends if that is OK with your mother.
Going behind her back and she finds out you'll be grounded and she will not be able to trust you any more and your life will then be worse than it is now.
SO, DO NOT GO!
2007-09-18 03:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by Aliz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if u keep it from her, it wil make her angry real angry if she does find out, just explain to her that u really like this boy, and that u want to go out with him. ask her would she rather see u unhappy than happy, the thing we dont understand alot is that our moms used to be younger too. and im sure that they went through similar things to what we do now with them.
why not sit her down and have a talk with her and just explain how u feel. and then just ask her was she never like this with her mom before.
good luck sweetie
2007-09-18 03:00:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋