Ladies (or anyone), who would you choose?

Question

A. The down-to-earth, fun, loving, very active, proud college graduate who is handsome, smells great and who is career minded for a successful family and future, and also lives in a nice area.

OR

B. A felon who is on probation for the next 4 years, an abusive drunk who you would have to be his taxi service because he has no driver's license and no car, also has no money and uses you for your money to go gambling out of state illegally and is in no way capable of supporting a family 100%, etc etc.

Who would you choose?

Why do you think my ex chose B? It can't be sex, not to be sick but I make her come every time. I am always sensitive and we used to talk and be best friends. I don't smell funny and I always was a non-overbearing b/f who gave her everything I could. Is there something wrong with me?

I knew that she came because she gets WETTER everytime.

Sorry but you asked.

Answer 1

There’s nothing wrong with you. There’s something wrong with her. She has very little self-esteem. For whatever reason, she wants the excitement of this “bad boy” because he makes her feel like she’s living dangerously.

At some point, she’ll realize he was using her, and may want to make amends with you.

If she wants to come back to you, please ask her to be tested for STDs. I doubt he was careful with her and anyone else around him.

EDIT: I might also add that she may think that she can change him, that he just needs someone who'll "understand" him. Erroneous assumption to make because most men don't want you to try and change them.

Answer 2

Of course I'd choose A, but your ex probably chose it because they feel they aren't good enough for anyone. Sometimes if the person feels like they aren't worthy enough for a good person, that they should just deal with the ones who aren't right with them. You should talk to them and tell them to get out of the situation and lift their spirits up.

Answer 3

obviously this question is hard to answer truthfully because we don't know you or your circumstances.

I do feel for you... some women are cruel, but I promise not all of us are that way. Maybe see this as an opportunity to escape a relationship that didn't suit you either. If she is really that trashy - move on and find yourself a REAL women. Plenty of women out there to befriend and fall in love with. best of luck to you and KEEP YOUR HEAD UP!

Answer 4

I would say there is something wrong with your ex. Perhaps she has had an abusive past , doesn't feel she is worth more than she has now and doesn't know how to cope with a relationship where thing work out well.

Answer 5

It could be something to do with your perfection do you think? How do you actually KNOW she came every time? Are you sure you didn't spend a lot of time letting her know what a good deal she had? It would put a lot of us off.

Answer 6

because of the fact adult males are shallow and don't understand that maximum boobs do no longer look like Pamala Anderson's. surgical treatment is costly, and to seize maximum adult males interest you elect somewhat "help".

Answer 7

A. definetly. to choose b would mean that a woman would want to be like him and want to go down the same troubled road as him and end up nowhere and with nothing but trouble, a record and no future

Answer 8

Nothing wrong with you, more like something wrong with her. Maybe she has a fantasy for wanting a bad guy.

Answer 9

Sounds like your better off without her mate.

Answer 10

i already picked A - a physicist. i can't imagine picking B, on a survey or in real life.