Why do women make men jump through so many hoops to keep them?

Question

Why is it that even with all the feminism, men still have to jump through hoops for women? What do women do to attract men other than looking pretty? Why do women act like they're prizes to be won and then complain about being objectifyed?

Can anyone tell me what women do to attract men other than look pretty?

Answer 1

Here's your best answer bro:

"Because they can"

Its evident in nature as with humans, that female's hold all the cards when sexuality (the 2nd largest urge next to food and shelter) is concerned.

By nature, men offer:
- Protection & Provisions (food etc)
Mens strenghs (weapons):
- Physically superior, independant thinkers, not afraid to hunt and kill for food.

Mens weaknesses:
- Their penises

By nature, women offer:
- Sexual gratification & Child Rearing, and household tasks.
Womens strenghs (weapons):
- Superior Emotionally manipulative tactics
- More cunning and sneaky, more likely to poison victim (secretly) instead of killing them w/weapon
- Natural ability to care for children and their man(men)
- Women are lifes biggest "askers of help." Eg, ask for directions, act helpless when they get a flat tire.

Feminism = made men jump through even more hoops.
Why? The power and respect men once had as protecters and providers has been replaced with anti-male laws, a police state, welfare, alimony, mothers allowance, child support, and 50% our assets.

Results: Women simply don't need men anymore. (Hence 60% divorce rates; 80% of them initiated by women.) In 1950, "Niceguys" were respected as providers. Now they sit in the sidelines for 20 years while women have numerous "exciting" yet failed badboy encounters.
90% of the women screw 10% of the guys. Trust me, I'm a former player. After they fail with badboys and lose their looks, they latch onto a nice guy, take his house, and move onto the next victim.

Double standards:
Western women have been bred by a political agenda (that profits from driving wedges between sexes) into bold, loud, rude, penis envying, non-marriage people. Its not their fault.

As natural "askers of help" - or "whiners" - they by nature complain about Everything to get what they want, be it material, control, or ATTENTION.
Only, and I repeat ONLY the uglies, or average ones complain about being objectified. Good looking girls don't have these issues, and its all apart of the larger Victim brainwashing feminism has done to our women.

Women have and will always use their looks to get what they want, and only the "genetic losers" who don't have this power do what they do best - Complain, *****, moan, whine, and bellyache.

Never, I repeat NEVER listen to a womans words seriously. They say 1 thing, think another, and end up doing something totally different. Watch their actions, ignore their words.

Answer 2

No HOWEVER you shouldnt restrict yourself to one race. Thats close minded and you lose out on alot of opportunities. Why does it matter that they're black? If you (a black woman) like black men and you find one and it works out well, sure why not? But if you are busting your "you know what" to be with a black man and it isnt working out, whats wrong with exploring other options? I think people criticize black women for this because we will go the extra mile to maintain a relationship with a black man even if its not likely to be a successful relationship. It may also have somthing to do with offspring maybe? Pretty much all African Americans at this point is mixed with a ton of other stuff (I am part Irish, German, Native American and more) so it cant possibly be about maintaining a steady black population? (since we are such a minority). I sometimes think it is because black women have such a pressure to be able to connect with a man at an intimate level and it is supposedly easier to do that with a black guy? I feel black women in a way still have a lower self esteem sometimes because it is a eurocentric world. Apprently, 80% of asian women in their 20s have had some kind of surgery, usually on their eyelids, to make themselves look more European, and I believe this is more prominent in Korea, where Ulzzang is popular (in essence, a beauty competition to see who looks more white). In a world where looking eutrocentric is more praised, I think black women turn to black men for support. But you can find a level of intimacy with ANYONE who finds you beautiful. My long time boyfriend is latino...he loves all my black features. I am attracted to any and every race though. So dont be so close minded! But if black men are youre thing, go for it!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

It's not "that even with all the feminism" that men can't pick up a partner easily, it's BECAUSE of all the feminism. Life in marriage for women was pretty dire - we know it wasn't you personally who treated women like muck, but your grandmother remembers and so does your mother. A little co-operation would help. It's not good enough for women to have to take men on trust, with his hidden agenda of what he expects from a wife without making sure she agrees. The hoops constitute equal rights - try to be kind.

Answer 5

I gave up understanding women a long time ago. I'm a romantic at heart and would go through great lengths. But in answer to your question, you may find this link helpful http://www.buzzle.com/editorials/2-24-2002-12089.asp. Or you may stick to Billy Joel's song http://www.mp3lyrics.org/b/billy-joel/shes-always-a-woman-to-me/

Answer 6

it just sounds like you are seriously intimidated by women who aren't throwing themselves at you... good luck with this one.

Mike T - it's because women don't MAKE men do anything. if a man is cowardice enough to "jump through hoops" for a woman to "keep them"...there's an issue. there's so much wrong with this whole question in general, that's why women aren't even taking the time to answer it.
Women have a lot to offer men and most men would agree that being with a woman goes way beyond just the looks. This question is based on his experiences in a bar setting probably, which is never an ideal place to meet a potential boyfriend or girlfriend.
This question also makes it seem like men have an issue with women who sit back and would rather be pursued and kept to themselves rather than throwing themselves out there only to be treated poorly for doing so.
ALLLLL which ties together and proves my point that this person had a bad experience with being turned down in a bar by a pretty girl because that's not where she wants to start a relationship with a guy...OR she has a boyfriend/fiance/husband who is smart enough to know that she doesn't want to meet a guy in a bar and she is secure enough with herself and her relationship to go out and not show interest in drunk guys at a bar...

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Answer 7

That's why you don't keep them...Why would you??? then you are playing their game...Don't give them that kind of power or control over you. They don't deserve it and they certainly aren't worth it. Also when you do, you are just inviting the State and the authorities into your life which in our culture is about the stupidist thing a man can do. There is so much out there for a man to be had. Why would you limit yourself to just one of these worthless things just to let them have power and control over you???

Edit: It's not what they do: Women don't attract to men. They don't bother. Their ego's are far too big for that since every man in the world is in love with them already. Have you ever heard the expression "Every woman Believes she's sitting on a Million Dollars!!" They don't have the capacity to love anyway. You have to look right, have the right vehichles, dress well, Have enough money and say and do all the right things to get their attention. I don't care what they say. They say one thing but they do another. It is just reality.

Answer 8

I think its a bit of a stretch to blame your foolish choices on women. Nobody can make you jump through hoops...you have obviously decided to do it. And if you select a woman that would make you do that, you get all you deserve...

Answer 9

because women always get the short end of the stick and usually have to put up with men that don't value them. Looks aren't all that matter, we actually DO have things other than boobs and booties. I DO have a mind. I DONT make guys jump through hoops, I just want them to show me that they do LOVE me. Women who make men jump through hoops for no reason are manipulative. But there are always hoops in reltaionships. TOo bad, men make us miserable because they can't seem to grasp the fact that we need affection!

Answer 10

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Answer 11

WOAH BIG BOY !!!!!!

i think theres a bit of hurt going on here

i never jumped through a hoop for any woman ( although if my girlfriend asked me nicely i would )

its about give and take , i give and she takes , lol

if you find the right girl , or even one that doesnt hurt you , then you will feel different

best of luck
Ian