"if u want something very well realse it free,if it doesnt return itsn't for u from the beginning,and if it returns then it is yours forever"(i dont know the identical words)
"اذا كنت تريد شئ بشده فاطلق سراحه فاذا عاد فانه لك الى الابد و ان لو يعد فانه لم يكن لك من الاساس"
what does it mean and what is the use of it?
2007-09-18 02:07:45 · 12 answers · asked by Adham 1910 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
"If you love someone set them free"....in relationships there may be a time when the other feels trapped or smothered and needs space and time, and if you really care for them you will be able to (although very hard) let them go and do what they need to. "If they don't come back, it was never meant to be"...you can wait for them but if they aren't willing to come back after some time, your relationship was never meant to work in the first place, and maybe that was just a way to break it to you gently....or enough time for that person to figure out, that they want something different.
And obviously, if they return that person has realized they aren't able to live without you and is willing to make things work with you.
Basically, its about giving love a chance, and testing the law of fate.
2007-09-18 02:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one set "free" is allowed to make their own choices and this is a learning opportunity that may enrich their lives for the better or for the worst. It also demonstrates the love, compassion, and maturity of the one willing to "release" the other even though it is a deeply personal sacrifice, including the possibility of hurt and pain knowing the possible hardship the "released" will suffer. One is doing the "releasing", as a parent letting a child leave home. The other feels "freed" to become a adult, whether ready or not. The real "Jewel" in this saying is the one doing the releasing. Patience is a quality we can all hope for, but seldom achieve. In the Bible is a story of the "Prodigal Son", this story is a good example of the saying.
2007-09-18 10:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by bailingwirewillfixit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try and keep too tight a hold one someone, they will resent you. It is saying that if you let them be free, and they come back to you willingly, then you know you've found the right person.
You cannot force someone to love or like you.
2007-09-18 09:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by gryphon1911 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had it explained to me as:
If you have a friend,woman, or animal, that you keep and they are not a prisoner, but you hold them close.
AND
When you give them the chance to be free and they still come back to you, they choose to stay with you , not because they HAD to.
If they do not come back, then it was not meant to be.
You have to let it go.
2007-09-18 13:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Cow Girl 2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can be for friends if u had a friend and u really love then there was a while were far from him\her if this friend came back to u then he\she is ur true friend if this friend just ignored then he\she wasn't a true one and this quote has many meanings on friendships and on love and loyalty and others
2007-09-19 09:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by ♥sweety♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"If you love something, set it free. If comes back, it is yours. If it doesn't, it never was."
Just a warning that in matters of the heart, the proper relationship is one of mutual attraction, not master and slave.
2007-09-18 09:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3aiza as2al so2al re7'em mesh bda2t el madrasa a3ed leeh b2a yala ro7 zaker we mat2oleesh ana leeh a3da
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2007-09-18 13:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"If you love something, set it free. If comes back, it is yours. If it doesn't, it never was."
Similar states are about our attachment and clinging. Attachment and clingy are very unpleasant states to experience and lead to problems like anger, jealousy and violence.
2007-09-18 09:14:27 · answer #8 · answered by guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means whoever is with you; because you have held tight is not with you out of free will and not really yours. but when you let go and he/ she comes back to you out of free will then you really belong to each other out of free will and not out of force or compulsion.
it means one should give space and freedom in relations to make your relations really strong.
2007-09-18 09:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by mukesh padhya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my openion i think it means that everything is in God's Hand.
and i use it always
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2007-09-18 12:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋