and how did you deal with it?
Mine was when I gave birth to my baby boy. I was a million light years from home and the ex wasn't talking to any members of his family...so that meant they couldn't see the baby and I had to go through everything alone....
How about you?
2007-09-18 02:00:13 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I feel this is kind of a delicate question so yeah, no judging others please on what they have written....
Thanks and peace to all. ((Hugs))
2007-09-18 02:12:00 · update #1
Just after I got let go from my last job. All I had was my car, my place and my ex-bosses wife!
2007-09-25 23:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you it was after the birth of my son. My husband walked out after 6 years of marriage when I was 6 months pregnant. I was devastated. I didn't deal with it well at all so your question really touched me. My and his family were not close by, he literally disappeared and 30 years later and we haven't seen him since. I found out my two closest friends had slept with him. I lost my husband, his family and my friends all at once. At that time 30 years ago divorce was not as common as today and communication was not encouraged. We were a generation who were taught to keep things to yourselves. I didn't know anyone who had gone through the same thing. I felt that I must be the worst person in the world that my husband would walk away while I was pregnant and very ashamed of the fact so that made talking about it impossible. My suggestion is that you either join a church or support group having supportive people around you and realizing that you are not the only one in your situation is a real comfort. As a p.s. I raised my son alone for 10 years and every single day of his life he was and continues to be a joy to me. We have a very special bond. Good luck and God bless
2007-09-18 02:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by judy b 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I was in high school. I had "friends", but they were friends of convience. I didn't deal with it well. I hated everything about high school and couldn't wait to graduate and move on. I changed schools to where I was able to work at my pace and graduate early. That was 14 years ago. I had a chance to go to my reunion, and told the people planning it I had died years before. I have stopped talking to anyone from school because that experience was so bad. And before anyone judges me, you weren't there and have no idea at all what I went through!
2007-09-18 02:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It was the summer of 1998, I was 18 and I had been left by my boyfriend...I was completely alone, my friends were on holiday...I spent the whole summer at the window...I just had fun watching 'Friends' in the evening...If I could turn back time I would not waste that summer again...I was so young and that age never comes back!
I'm sorry for what you have experienced :(
2007-09-19 00:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I decided to do a tour in Europe and I did it alone and it started in London but you didn't know who you were traveling with so I was in England for 3 days all alone wishing I could share the experience with someone.....anyone.
It got better though once the tour started.
2007-09-18 02:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by ShrunkenFro™ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My last year of pharmacy school. I lived 350 miles from home, all of my friends had already graduated because their programs were shorter, and my boyfriend had also graduated and moved back to his home in Cleveland. It was awful and i was so depressed. I just made every effort to busy myself and concentrate on my goals. I also got a puppy, which sounds silly i guess, but was amazingly comforting.
2007-09-18 02:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by Kristi 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
One christmas in the Air Force. I was suppost to go home to visit my roommate's family, but his dad had a heart attack and asked that christmas time be just for family (I understood). So, I was alone in the dorm.
2007-09-18 02:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Rocketmaniac 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When I was pregnant with my oldest son...my parents wouldn't talk to me and my fiance bailed as soon as he found out I was pregnant. Over a decade later...I'm still not sure how I got through it. I just woke up every morning and somehow survived.
2007-09-23 17:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by motherofthree 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am going through my loneliest time right now. If it wasn't for you and all my wonderful friends (not the haters, but I do love them too :-P) I wouldn't get out of bed.
love ya
2007-09-18 06:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by Angel of Death says F-IT! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Right now. Kids live with sis. Gave her guardianship while i dealt with thier critically ill sis. My sis got lawyer and filed for custody and won, she an accountant and has money I'm married to construction worker who drinks and beats me..
Kids are happier but i'm absolutely totally alone
2007-09-18 02:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋