my wife wants to know ,why even though i am 49 yrs old i still like to admire young gals,she thinks after?

Question

40yrs i should just work and pray all the time and be with the family all the time, pls advise...tks

Answer 1

Tell her it's the way of the WEST, all us men look at other women, just like they look at other men, we all have eyes.

Answer 2

Looking at pretty girls is like looking at the scenery. It's a fact of life and honestly I get really tired of hearing women complain that their men are 'looking'. I haven't met a woman yet that won't look at a good looking man as he walks by. Talk about hypocrisy.

Anyway, as long as yo are faithful there shouldn't be a problem. Maybe she is feeling insecure and needs to know that you still love and want her. So, make extra sure your wife feels loved and keep on looking. You need to let her know that you don't think there is anything wrong with checking out a pretty girl and that doesn't stop you from caring about her. If it is eally upsetting her maybe you could try to do it so she doesn't see.

I would have to gouge my husband's eyes out to get him to stop looking. It's natural.

Answer 3

My husband is 47 and he can look as long as he doesn't touch. Some women just think that they should be all their man wants or needs - and sometimes that isn't the case. It doesn't hurt to admire the beauty of another person as long as it is done from a distance. Also, some women can not deal with getting older and when they notice their husband's eyes straying, they become insecure. Remind her that you love her and that physically, she is all that you need.

Answer 4

as long as all you are doing is admiring i dont think its wrong. Maybe you guys should spice up the sex life

Answer 5

tell her you are on a diet but still like to look at the menu.