when it isn't even my fault. Like yesterday, she said that if we would've studied we could've made good on a quiz she gave us, and over half the class failed, but she looked at me while she said it. Then she told us that we're doing our graphs wrong, and looked at me when she said it. I'm a good student in her class and all, but I don't know why she'd blame me, maybe she just blames a random person I suppose.
2007-09-18 00:11:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are a lot of reasons that she might be looking at you. Maybe she thinks or knows that you, specifically, could do better, and she is trying to give you a silent push. Maybe you just have an appearance or personality that draws her to look at you no matter what it is she's talking about. Maybe you just happen to sit in a place that catches her eye or that is easy for her to focus on.
If she's not actually calling you out, you can't say she's blaming you. But if you do think that that's what she's doing, why don't you stay after class one day and ask her about it?
2007-09-18 00:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by MJ3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault that other people in your class have not done well, whether on the quiz or on the graphs. I doubt that your teacher is blaming you for the mistakes of the other students. Sometimes when people are talking to a group, they will look above the heads of the listeners - this makes the listeners feel as though they are receiving eye contact from the speaker, but also helps the speaker to deliver bad news and criticism with more ease. If you truly think that your teacher is blaming you for the issues of your classmates, it is best to speak with your teacher and let him or her know your concerns. You might also find that he or she was looking directly at you, either because you are doing well compared to others or because you are not reaching the potential they see in you. Good luck!
2007-09-18 00:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Joanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a teacher feels like they're failing in their responsibilities to their class, sometimes they'll look to their best students to pull them out of their funk. The fact that you even make eye contact with her tells her you're at least engaged in what she's trying to say, which she might not get from many other students. She's definitely not "blaming" you for anything. She's probably looking for answers as to what she can do to help the class improve. Whatever the cause, it's her problem, not yours.
2007-09-18 00:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have developed against your teacher will affect your studies for ever. It is possible that though some people are teacher they do not have what is called ethics in them to render their teaching services faithfully. You need to talk to your parent/guardian(s) about this and see to it that you change to a school environment where you can be free of such a feelings. If you must continue schooling in your current school you must also ignore this situation and concentrate on your studies.
2007-09-18 00:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by dviakal78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likely doesn't mean much by it. I think she is pulling you out to look at bc she sees your potential and knows how wonderful you can do. She is wanting you to realize that. If you have always done good, and then started coming down, then she would likely do the same. She is not trying to blame you. She just wants you to know that she believes in you and she knows what you can do.
2007-09-18 00:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wants you to learn and do the best you can while you've got a chance. Sit down with her and have a calm talk and just say you feel like things are being pointed at you. If you don't like the explanation she gives you tell her you want this sorted and if you have to you will take things higher and complain
2007-09-18 00:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably expects more of you, because she feels you are more capable than some of the other students. She is indicating to you, without calling you out by name, that she is disappointed that you did not do better. Think about it. If she is feeling this way, you probably could have put more effort into studying.
2007-09-18 00:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not blaming you at all - maybe just has to do with where you sit and she can make eye contact with you easily. or maybe she wants you to do really really good so she want to make sure that you are paying attention to what she's saying so she makes strong eye contact with you.
2007-09-18 00:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give her any eye contact when she stands up in front of the class. that way you wont feel blamed and she will have to look else where.
2007-09-18 00:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her know how u feel about that.
2007-09-18 00:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋