It's not too hard to forgive someone you really love; however it depends on the circumstances at hand. I normally don't forget things though. I don't keep tabs though, as in, "oh, I MUST get even." It's just harder to trust said person. Once you have betrayed me, it's hard to gain trust back. Then again, I have a hard time trusting people to begin with.
2007-09-17 23:56:32
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answered by Mistress Lucy 4
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I find it hard to forgive i will somtimes but don't think i ever forget. Yes i do hold a grudge (i have a list in my head lol!) my main grudge is with my Ex he screwed with my head and treated our child like a doormat and now doesn't even aknowledge him
2007-09-18 06:59:27
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answered by jenni h 3
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with my friends i forgive easily with my family i hold a grudge
2007-09-18 06:53:50
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answered by Death Girl Am 6
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If they really mattered to begin with I forgive but i dont forget other wise i hold a grudge and see how i feel about it in a while till then youre not my buddy!!!!!! >:|
2007-09-18 06:53:56
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answered by mhmm(; 1|22|11 5
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It would all depend on what it was all over.
I have forgiven easily & still holding a grudge after 3 years. Sure it'll be a LOT longer!!!
2007-09-18 07:06:43
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answered by ® 7
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I'm not that easy to forgive those who are really bad guys and those do not change themselves even if I forgive them. I prefer to continue a grudge with a person whoever he/she may be if he/she is hard nut to crack.
2007-09-18 07:05:43
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answered by nazbak 6
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i forgive it may take me a little while but i always forgive-holding a grudge only make you a bitter lonely person.life is too short to ne mad all the time.
2007-09-18 06:54:49
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answered by Anonymous
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I hold a grudge on people who have betrayed me
2007-09-18 06:52:04
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answered by Anonymous
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i am easy to forgive,but trust is a different story ......... i do not waste my energy on hate and revenge,if i did i would just go around being violent or sabatoging people ,however people that i know are contnuously bent on ill will towards myself i block them out of my life but i do not hold a grudge against them,they are they and i am i ........... however if an opportunity presents itself if they are too threatening I will strike ....
2007-09-18 07:14:15
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answered by Anonymous
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It smells some thing like lying and betrayal and i will hold a grudge.
2007-09-18 06:54:31
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answered by shane c 5
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