On Soulmates?

Question

Why do I keep attracting the same partner but in a different package?

I've had two traumatic relationships in my life both of which I gave up and left. Now I've attracted a third one and I don't know what to do. Just thinking about it is putting so much stress on me but if I leave again then what are the chances I'd attract a fourth one? I know there's a lesson I need to learn here and this new person the same with me. But why are my love relationships always like this??? And believe me it's hard to "not" be in a relationship with this type of soul.

Answer 1

In life, we always have to make choices, and what we choice normally affect how our life in the future.

In relationship, we can choose to totally devoted to it, but you may get hurt heavily; you also can choose to keep to yourself, you may not get hurt, but you will never find a true love.

The choice is yours, you decide for yourself.

Answer 2

What kind of soul is this? That aside.......

Seems your beating yourself up, simply because your coming up with your own unique perception of relationships, that (I'm not trying to offend you, this is just how I give advice, some like, some don't) is actually conflicting with what is the reality of relationships.

See for one you don't just attract "souls" all human relationships are based on 2-way interactions and attraction, theres give and take on both sides, so you never attracted anything that wasn't attracted in the frist place, besides that were all pretty much attracted to everyone, so basing the fact that you got together on something you alone did is going to causing you problems, because your going to fight with yourself on what that was. That aside your also showing some age, seem young, because you havn't realize how easy it is to fall in and out of relationships, we have no set number. I'm 26 years old, I've had 4 relationships and thats more then double the amount I've turn away. Thats not to brag, thats actually below average, that aside even. You need to also most likly realize espacially if these relationships have met a "end", that chances are the mistake your missing is that you never get into relaitonships for more then love sake alone. THere most be a purpose outside the relationship you BOTH hold on to, and understand, that was religion, we don't have that anymore, to the intensity it needs to be, to keep relationships going. So your going to run into the same problem all the divores do, because in the end, family has lost its siglar purpose to in guilding us thru a relationship. So your not going thru anything special here hunnie, just you dealing with the same relaitonship grid we all are, because were a butch of lost, sheep, still looking for a purpose that matters, but blinding ourselves with something that isn't, hence sexuality, money, and "success" and MTV! Theres alot more I can say, but you didn't give me enough details so had to give you the general advice, might help, might not.....