I guess i am a looser i cant hold a job for notihing i work my *** off for everyone i work for and after they get what they need done i get kicked to the curb. right now i have no job, no girlfried, and im staying at my sisters house, im tired of my life, i have thought about killing myself but the only thing that has stoped me is my 4 yr old son that lives 8 hours away, and now its to the point that my son isnt good enough for me to live life as i see it now, suicide is my only option isnt it
2007-09-17 18:06:57 · 7 answers · asked by lstbob51 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm 33. 7 year cancer survivor with 1.5 lungs. Now have liver failure and am on a waiting list for a transplant.
3 years ago, my best friend and Dad passed away.
5 years ago, my only son passed away.
Now after a successful TIPS procedure to help my liver function, I am training for a marathon this december. I just bought a house. Landed a nice job last year and was able to take a month off for vacation and travel to europe and africa this summer.
I was in a electric scooter less than 2 years ago because I couldn't walk from my stomach being swollen due to liver problems...now I'm on pace for a 3hr 30min marathon time.
You have to make it happen....
2007-09-17 18:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by rem 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Over that stuff? Seriously man your life will take itself someday, let it run its course.
So you don't have a job, I'm assuming you're having financial, friend, and female problems. I'm also assuming there are other underlying reasons as to why your life is such a living hell.
Everything goes through cycles. This includes the seasons, time of day, the economy, and even your life. Surely to god you remember a time when you were happy? Before that were you ever sad? You are at an extreme in one of these cycles. Ending the cycle now won't let you see how increadibly happy you CAN (keyword) be.
Ah but theres a trick to it. You have to stop complaining and whining and bitc....well you get the point. Smack those tears from your eyes and be the man you son is going to need you to be. You may not think it now, but someday he will be a man in need of an old man to talk to.
As for your life...well it sounds like you have a LOT of open room for a LOT of change. Your life has probably not been such a blank canvas in a while.
2007-09-17 18:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by coop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is never an option. It's a mental disease. You do not sound mentally diseased to me. You sound beaten down, though. Hate to say it, sir, but, when the going gets tough, the tough get going. It does not matter how hard life is for you. All that matters is your son. You HAVE to make it. You HAVE to rise above the challenges. You HAVE to because, QUITE contrary to what you wrote here, your son most absolutely without a single eff-ing doubt in the world is "good enough" for you to live. There's an old western saying that goes, "I ain't ever seen a man who can't git throwed and I ain't ever seen a horse that can't be rode." Stay sober. Get your chin up. Go see your son. Then, put some spurs on and get back on that horse.
2007-09-17 18:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. Have you tried any meds? Like Prozac or Wellbutrin?
A friend of mine with ADD said things like this all the time and we were all very worried. One day, like magic, it all stopped and he's been more normal than most of us. Combined? hehe
Needless to say, I've asked for in depth info on just what happened and I always get the same, simple answer. His doctor diagnosed him with adult ADHD and put him on Adderall. He says the hopelessness disappeared, sleep/wake cycle became nearly normal, etc.
Hang in there but do NOT go any further without finding a good doc.
Best of luck!
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2007-09-17 19:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ok calm down... #1 don't kill yourself #2 what are we supposed to say? I am sorry for you but do u need me to tell you what you want to hear? Lets quit the wallowing in self-pity..sorry....and think....im guessing you at least got a diploma so keep trying!! you have a son? you cant do that to someone!! If you think positivley youd be amazed at what can happen...but no girl wants a suicidal ...looser...so change what needs to be changed! if i dont help, see a counselor....but i STILL hope this helps....
2007-09-17 18:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by jerome 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is an absolute looser. There is a proverb
in India which says that if you loose some thing,
you will gain some thing better in some other way.
Practice meditation and feel the effect for yourself.
2007-09-17 21:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by d_r_siva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you off'd yourself yet?
Are you still feeling all emo and sh!t...quit being a pansy ****** and live your life.
2007-09-18 17:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋